I have come to realize that alot of African American men love hispanic women. For the past year I have wondered why I mean is it a long hair light skin thing and if so there are many black girls with those same features so it had to be more than that. So here is my theory the TYPICAL Hispanic female lives by the creed LET ME CATER TO YOU while most African American girls are striving to be Ms Independent. Now there is nothing wrong with either position but we as African American women have to learn that though we are independent and strong we don't have to always wear our strength on our sleeve. We are quick to tell a man we don't need them and where they can go and what we can do on our own. We are quick to say I'm not cooking tonight when a spanish girl understands that when he comes home he doesn't want to hear all the extra sh!t he wants the house cleaned, dinner on the table and some good loving when he's done eating... So I am taking some time to learn about the other side, to learn to submit more, instead of being all about me, me, me, Leah Janell is Cooking Cleaning and Freaking
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I don't know Ms. Janell. I think I have another theory. Because, I have tried it both ways with the same man and neither way worked. So, I think that there is a thing that each individual man is looking for and if he is in love with you he will learn to lead you to that complete happiness that he dreams of. Men fall the hardest so if you are the one, you could sleep with his friend, call his mama out of her name, treat him like a child, cage him from the outside world, order out everyday, smack him around and treat sex like his birthday; once a year (okay, maybe not that one :P) and he AIN'T GOING NOWHERE!! These spanish lovers just got a thing for eye candy and an accent...THAT'S WHY JAMAICAN GIRLS ROCK!!! LOL
Lol Your amazing lady, to each is own we all have our own thoughts I just know that I need to figure this out asap. Im getting older I know how to snag them but I have to get adjusted to keeping them around... Thanks for the support...
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