Monday, January 26, 2009

The Do's and Don'ts...

To the proposal...

DO propose in a romantic location, take a trip somewhere that your lady has never been, allow it to be a whole new experience for her.

DO use props when proposing, buy your lady a puppy and attach the box to his collar. Every time she looks at her puppy it will remind her of that big day.

DON'T propose on a holiday, NOT Valentines Day, NOR Christmas, not her birthday either, the day you propose should be about you and your lady. Selecting a date is important and that day should ONLY be known as your anniversary. There shouldn't be any other festivities to celebrate on that day.

DON'T mention what you spent on the ring, or how many carats it is. SAVE THAT FOR THE PRIVACY OF YOUR HOME, its classless for everyone in the room to know.

DO ask your ladies father for her hand in marriage.

DO consult her mother, sister OR best friend before purchasing the ring, one of these ladies will know what your lady is looking for in a ring.

DON'T rush your proposal, make sure the time is right, make sure you have saved enough money. No one wants a proposal on a budget.

DO add the element of surprise tell your lady to dress up and meet you at a new restaurant, have her immediate family & friends meet you there as well as. Order for her so upon her arrival you can pop the question, following that dinner can be served and the rest of the night is for laughing, eating and drinking...

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

4 comments:

WHY IZ H said...

I AGREE WITH THIS IT IS IMPORTANT THAT YOU DO IT ON A SPECIAL DAY WHEN THAT DAY CAN BE HERS YUP!!!

The Socialite said...

Good advice. The advice for guys not to propose on a holiday really stood out. I think that naturally guys mike think it is special to do it on a already special day like valentine day...but I think it is important to make the day all about your relationship.

Leah Janell said...

EXACTLY!!! WHO WANTS TO ONLY BE CARVING A TURKEY ON THEIR ANNIVERSARY...

WHY IZ H said...

LMAOOOOOOO WILD FUNNY

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