Snowy Days...

Isn't it such a drag when you wake up in the morning look out the window and see snow. Yikes now image if you already laid out your clothes for work and you have to change your entire outfit because of this sudden change in weather. The alarm clock didn't go off so your running late, and all you can do is think about making some pancakes, hot tea and going right back to sleep... My advice to you is to make the best of any snow day... Remember when you were little and you use to make snow angels. I know, I know we are a bit too old for that now, but try writing a cute little message in the snow, then picture texting it to your lover or friends. I am certain it will brighten up their snow day.






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Event Planning 101

ALWAYS WOW THE KIDS....

Everyone loves cake and ice cream especially children so recently when I attended a birthday party for my little cousin Laila, I discovered something "cute, different, and tasty" that was a combination of cake and ice cream "CAKE IN A CONE". .

How to make these delicious treats...

* Purchase Assorted colored cones (like the ones you see in the photo's below)

* After you mix your cake batter fill the bottom of the cone with the mix

* Place the cones in the oven to bake under 250 degree oven temperature

* Pay close attention to the cones because they will cook extremely fast, in about 7 to 10 minutes

* After the cake is done remove the cones from the oven and allow them to cool in room temperature

* Place icing on top of each cone and add sprinkles or even a cherry on top to attract the children

As you can see these CAKE'S IN A CONE were a major success, Laila and the rest of her guest enjoyed them...







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Ask Leah...

Hey Lady,
I have this problem that i need your advice on, I met this guy that i thought was great I mean he had so many things going for himself great job, masters degree, no children lol. We became friends and were getting to know each other so one day he asked if i had myspace and I told him yes apparently one of my friends on myspace hit him up and they met up and I'll just say things happened between the two of them. He then tells me about it, but then said to me that he doesn't even like that girl and that he wants to get with me. I'm so confused do I cut him off?
Help

OK I'm not sure who's ass to kick first HIS or HER's. For starters LEAVE HIM ALONE, I say this because he was fully aware that she was an acquaintance of yours before he started dealing with her. Now that goes two ways because I am guessing she knew you and him were on the verge of developing something as well. I am more concerned with your friendship with this young lady than you losing a random dude. See the way I see it is BOYS WILL ALWAYS BE BOYS, but true friends are hard to come by. Cut him loose but keep that wild chica close because like the old saying goes keep ya friends close and your enemies even closer. If dude is genuine he will respect you for walking away and staying away all men like a little bit of a chase and in your case lady your deserve to be chased. Now after 6 to 12 months of fleeing him if he would like to take you on an exclusive dinner then I say go for it but only accept that date if he's taking you somewhere that requires him to wear a blazer and a good shoe. YES MA'AM HE OWES YOU BIG TIME...

Let me know what you think, should she cut him off or give him a second chance...

Send your questions to ELEGANT718@AOL.COM and in the subject write ASK LEAH

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

Ask Leah...

Last night I received a text message from a young man asking for advice, so I have decided to implement the ASK LEAH column of my blog. I will never reveal who the person is, but I will look to my readers for advice to help this individual especially if you disagree with the advice I have given. So Here we go.

Hey Leah,
Lets start off by saying I have no swag, secondly I need to know what it is that females like. I have never really had a girl to call my own. And I may need help in that category.
Thanks Your Friend

First I would like to thank you for your honesty, let me start off by saying that SWAGGER is something that people "have" not something you can create. Swag in my personal opinion is confidence, its all in the way you walk, and the way you talk. Your swag is not determined by the car you drive, but could easy be observed by the way you drive that car "If you understand what I'm saying". For example, I adore a man with a laid back swag which means when he's driving he doesn't have his windows rolled down for all to hear his music trying attract on lookers. Swag isn't developed by what you wear but how you wear it... As for your second question WHAT DO FEMALES LIKE lol we wish we could tell you, while we are crying about wanting A GOOD MAN, we sometimes always go right back to the one who did us wrong. I can only speak for myself when I say I am attracted to Bad Boys but all girls want respect, honesty, loyalty and to feel loved don't be afraid to pamper your lady but don't be afraid to tell her NO at the same time, we cant always have everything we want.

To hear more about swagger go to www.nopoundsent.com view the program OFF TOPIC Episode 2 is titled SWAG...

Now its your turn feel free to comment with some advice for my friend. And if you have a question email it to me at Elegant718@aol.com and in the subject write ASK LEAH...

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

CONGRATULATIONS

WELL THE TIME HAS FINALLY ARRIVED SHEENA HAD THE BABY AAKI JR. WAS BORN SUNDAY JAN. 11th 2009 AT 8:15AM HE'S A SMALL BUNDLE OF JOY WEIGHING IN AT 4LBS 11oz... BLESSINGS TO THE PARENTS AND THEIR FIRST BABY...

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Top 3 ways to keep HIM interested...

Now that I have learned that I have male readers I think its time for me to get their opinion on things. As I have told y'all before I think that I am honestly ready for a relationship so I am trying to figure out if I am on the right track to snag the dude of my choice

Top 3 ways to keep him interested...

Send cute text messages...
There's a dude that makes me smile he doesn't have to say much just the mere fact that he is what me and my girls consider "A WHOLE MAN" puts a smile on my face. So when I hadn't heard from him in a while I sent him a cute text that said
neglect- [ni-glekt] verb
1. to pay no attention or too little attention to; disregard or slight.
___________ has neglected Leah all week long.

Now he thought it was different and it made him laugh, but am I still on the cute BFF side of things?

Momma knows Best
The way to man's heart is through his stomach, at least that's what my mother has always raised me to believe. Now I must admit I am far from one to say women belong in the kitchen but I do think your man should wake up to the smell of some good Ole Turkey bacon every once in awhile.

So what do y'all think should I find out what his favorite meal is and cook it for him...

Talk Sports
So y'all already know I have this down pack I'm a basketball fan to the heart, and I'm trying to learn all about Football, you can sit me in front of any boxing match and I'm glued to the screen.

So the question is does men adore the prissy type or do they like women who are little boys at heart.

I'm leaning on you all for advice ladies share your secrets and fellas don't be afraid to correct us in the areas we are slipping...

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

Event Planning 101

The Baby Shower
Those of you who know me know that I am the QUEEN of planning, Road Trips, Vaca's, Romantic Dinners if you are my girl I have aided in planning a significant event in your life. My most recent event to date, was my girlfriend Sheena's Baby Shower. When Sheena called to give me the news that she was expecting, I was all too excited I don't even recall her asking me to plan her shower, I just did. So I am going to use Sheena's Baby Shower as a guide to teach you all how to plan the perfect Baby Shower...

Location, Location, Location
People love to fantasize, pick a location that allows your guest imagination to flow.
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The Cake
When Planning a baby shower the cake is extremely important, the cake is a conversation piece, allow a piece of that conversation to go home with your guest and your shower will be the talk of the town for many months to come.


The Food
Everyone enjoys good food, but most importantly people appreciate the presentation. Tin foil pans and aluminum foil covers are a major NO NO. Also avoid full size plates, and paper goods. Silverware and glass plates are a must.


The Drinks
At a Baby Shower things need to remain classy serve your guest all types of wine NO HARD LIQUOR, have your glasses of wine already served in small glasses to keep spills to a minimum.


Thank Yous
Present your guest with a token of your appreciation in a surprise element, I mean when you got your gift it was wrapped so nicely shouldn't theirs be.

and whats inside should be something to make everyone say AWWWWW... Like these personalized M&Ms


The Guest
Don't be afraid to be selective with whom you invite to your events, select an older mature crowd of adults and predominately females to keep the chatter about last nights game to a minimum.


If you follow these guides lines you are sure to end the night with TWO PROUD SOON TO BE PARENTS... As I did...


Thanks Sheena and Aaki for the opportunity...

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Nail Polish Color of the Week

Purple has ironically become the new black, in the midst of us girls trying to take a walk on the dark side we were introduced to "We Still Have Paris" OPI'S new deep plum color. I have yet to experience Paris, but WE STILL HAVE NEW YORK, this Purple tone would be great for a Broadway Play...

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Happy New Year to ALL...

and to all a HAPPY NEW YEAR... Welcome to 2009, I am certain I am not the only one to say that 2008 has been one heck of a year. From The Economy to Athlete's in trouble, it seems like every time we turned on the news OUR people were yet again in trouble. Even with all the headaches of 2008 we were happy to hear that Beyonce and Jay-Z tied the knot, but most off all we were able to shed tears of JOY on November 4Th when BARACK OBAMA WAS ELECTED THE 44TH PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA... Because of that very day, "At that very moment" we are all able to walk into 2009 INSPIRED, inspired to achieve, inspired to become, inspired to explore, inspired to learn, inspired to give and inspired to grow... So on the last night of 2008 my family and I went to church, to Thank God for all that 2008 gave us Good and Bad, also to receive his blessings for 2009. After church my sister Shyah (The Publicist) and I went to Columbus 6 a hotel in Manhattan to meet up with my girlfriend Kenya. As we listened to tunes by my 2ND Favorite : ) Roc-a-fella Artist we sipped red wine and reminisced about 2008. We talked about Our Trip to Cleveland which was the best/worse trip we have ever taken. We laughed till our tummy's hurt. This I know 2008 has made me a better person and for that I am truly THANKFUL...
HAPPY NEW YEAR...





Leah Janell: In My Shoes