Posing a Threat...

Maybe some of you females today are sitting back listen to many SEX WITH MY EX tracks... But this morning I would like to pose a question "HOW DO YOU THINK YOU MAKE YOURSELF LOOK WHEN YOU ARE CONSTANTLY COMPLAINING TO YOUR MAN ABOUT HIS EX" I mean if you have never caught him with her, caught them on the phone, If she lives in another state and the most contact they might have is over myspace, then don't you think he most likely has moved on. I mean to each relationship I guess its a different scenario, so tell me this WHEN SHOULD THE PRESENT DAY CHICK BE WORRIED ABOUT HER MAN & HIS EX.... In my personal opinion if you know what you and your man have then no female should be able to make you feel insecure about your relationship. Furthermore if you do feel threatened NEVER NEVER NEVER LET YOUR MAN KNOW YOU FEEL THREATENED. His phone is his phone, his email is his email, his myspace is his myspace along with his facebook, his wallet, his twitter. You always want to give your man enough room to breath, always make him feel like you trust him even if you have a thought in the back of your mind. AND TRUST IF THE EX IS AN EX SHE'S AN EX FOR A REASON... GIVE IT A REST...
THIS IS JUST MY OPINION AND YOU ARE ENTITLED TO YOURS, FEEL FREE TO LEAVE A COMMENT...

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

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Ask Leah...

Hey Lady,
I have this problem that i need your advice on, I met this guy that i thought was great I mean he had so many things going for himself great job, masters degree, no children lol. We became friends and were getting to know each other so one day he asked if i had myspace and I told him yes apparently one of my friends on myspace hit him up and they met up and I'll just say things happened between the two of them. He then tells me about it, but then said to me that he doesn't even like that girl and that he wants to get with me. I'm so confused do I cut him off?
Help

OK I'm not sure who's ass to kick first HIS or HER's. For starters LEAVE HIM ALONE, I say this because he was fully aware that she was an acquaintance of yours before he started dealing with her. Now that goes two ways because I am guessing she knew you and him were on the verge of developing something as well. I am more concerned with your friendship with this young lady than you losing a random dude. See the way I see it is BOYS WILL ALWAYS BE BOYS, but true friends are hard to come by. Cut him loose but keep that wild chica close because like the old saying goes keep ya friends close and your enemies even closer. If dude is genuine he will respect you for walking away and staying away all men like a little bit of a chase and in your case lady your deserve to be chased. Now after 6 to 12 months of fleeing him if he would like to take you on an exclusive dinner then I say go for it but only accept that date if he's taking you somewhere that requires him to wear a blazer and a good shoe. YES MA'AM HE OWES YOU BIG TIME...

Let me know what you think, should she cut him off or give him a second chance...

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Leah Janell: In My Shoes