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Something NEW...

2010-02-10T22:39:00.000-08:00

I know what you all are going to say, She's so off an on with this blogging thing and your right and I'm sorry. But tonight I just feel, I don't know INSPIRED in a way. I had my first convo with my future EX boyfriend LOL and he told me he read my blog. I'm thinking the blog I haven't posted on in months, just great... But after a pretty neat conversation, I couldn't help but smile I'm sort of PROUD OF MYSELF IN A SENSE, because I'm exploring something NEW... So I wanted to take the time out to tell you all to never be afraid to step out of your comfort zone, if you see it and you want it, go out and get it. If your shy be bold get loud, If your a jeans girl put on a mini dress, Fellas if your into Jay-Z try Common :) You never know what that something new might feel like. I'M open to where ever this journey may be taking me. Y'all just better hope I bring y'all along for the ride... Until my next post, HAVE FUN & TRY SOMETHING NEW...

She's Rocking Them Thangs Like...

2009-09-30T18:17:00.000-07:00

My girl Sheree has finally received "Her Favorite" shades, And shes loving them...

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Ask Leah Janell

2009-09-29T07:56:00.000-07:00

And So I Creep...

Dear Leah Janell,
My current relationship with my beau of three years has going sour, he just isn't who he use to be. In order to save face with my family & friends I'm hanging in there just trying to make things work. But to make my load lighter I gained a friend on the side. For starters AM I WRONG FOR WANTING TO HAVE A LIL FUN OUTSIDE OF MY DEAD RELATIONSHIP. But here is where my problem gets uglier my SIDE FRIEND just broke the news to me that he has a girlfriend and to be honest I'M JEALOUS, he doesn't want to break things off with me but he thought it would be best for me to know... DO I HAVE THE RIGHT TO BE JEALOUS OF HIS NEW FOUND LOVE...

OK lady allow me to be honest, open & down right straight forward... Your love life is only as bad as your making it... I say this because lets take relationship #1 first "Why have things gone sour in your relationship", "what has changed", "how long has this been going on" and "Lastly why are your friends & family so important that you feel the need to make them believe your happy in this situation" You need to ask yourself these questions. If you love your man whole heartedly then you need to open up to him and tell him what you need and if he cant provide that then walk away and keep the friendship. Do I think your wrong for having a side dude hmmm NOT AT ALL nine times out of ten a female is the reason for your mans shift in the relationship as well. But just look at it like this he's screwing her and you and your doing the side guy and he's doing his lady and we're all infected YES IT JUST THAT HEAVY... Jealously is a females trait you cant help how you feel but I would most certainly protect myself in this situation. If your just having fun do it on the safe side...

And remember these are just my thoughts, feel free to share yours...

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

Her Favorite

2009-09-28T09:43:00.000-07:00

My girlfriend from LA Charamon Hunter has become CEO of her own brand Her Favorite shades.

These sun glasses have been the latest and hottest trend in LA and they are slowly becoming a sensation in NY. Charamon went as far as having her shades in this summers Magic Show Convention and her shades were purchased by Angela Simmons of MTVs hit show Daddys Girls.

The Her Favorite motto is "Something bold, Something new, & Customized for you...

Check Me Out Rocking Mine

Get Your Shades today by emailing the designer Charamon Hunter at herfavorite.Charamon@gmail.com

Check out the website for different colors and designs.
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Event Planning 101

2009-09-23T18:35:00.001-07:00

This past weekend I attended a baby shower for a college friend and I must say it was upscale, amazing and nothing short of FAB. So here are a few do's for baby shower 101...

The Cupcake Tree has become the latest sensation at baby showers, I love the tree because it allows things to stay clean and neat and pretty much uniformed. DO the cupcake tree...

This was certainly a first for me I loved the miniature baby cradles throughout the venue they were very beautiful, extremely white and brought a sense of softness to the venue... Do the laced down miniature baby cradle.

It wasn't the souvenirs that I was impressed with but it was the tree that the souvenirS hung from that caught my eye. Having your host go around the shower pinning your guest is pretty old school allow them to grab a souvenir and pin themselves.

Several round tables, stand out colors and a view that is to die for... Gotta Love It

Every Queen deserves a throne and this young lady had hers decked out...

I was in love with the table full of sweets, large glass jars with spoons to scoop out your on candy FAB...

Separate section for gifts of course

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ASK LEAH JANELL

2009-09-22T21:03:00.000-07:00

Here's another Ask Leah Janell from a young lady out of Brooklyn...

Hey Lady, I've been dealing with an issue for a while and I just wanted to get your opinion. I am one of the youngest people in my office and I am the only African American. My days are often so hectic that I have to have my lunch delivered into the office and I eat at my desk. I know this may sound crazy but do you think it is OK for me as an African American to eat Fried Chicken at my desk and furthermore do you think my co-workers will judge me.

While this is extremely comical its a pretty interesting question. For me I would say everyone loves chicken and no one should have to watch what they eat around their co workers especially in the middle of a hectic day. Here's my suggestion order some chicken that smells great that will even make their mouths water, and get boneless chicken that way you can use a fork and not have to lick your fingers. My bets are someone will most likely ask you where did you order from instead of judging the fact that your young, black and eating chicken. Best of Luck Lady

So whats your take?

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

Alexis vs Amber

2009-09-17T16:51:00.000-07:00

So it seems Kanyes Ex Alexis Phifer and his current lady Amber Rose were both in attendance at the US Weekly 25's Most Stylish New Yorkers Celebration. While both girls are self proclaimed fashionista's. I am going to let you all be the judge of which one of these girls worked the red carpet best...
Alexis Kanyes Ex.

Amber Kanyes Present

Cast Your Vote...

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ASK LEAH JANELL

2009-09-16T07:58:00.001-07:00

I have received so many Ask Leah questions in the past few days so I am going to try my best to get to all of them... Today's Ask Leah comes from a young lady and her question reads...

Let's talk about sex (of course!) 25 and older... Are we beyond the point of "holding out". Are we old enough to be sexually liberated and not give a
middle finger up, or do people still judge?

Interesting question... For starters this is strictly geared to a 25 and older audience, there does come a point in our lives where sex begins to fill many voids, and we tend to call it being sexually liberated. First we have to recognize why all of a sudden we are eager to jump in a bed with a man and say no strings attached when all of our lives we were raised to believe that our body is sacred. LOL so fast how our morals are thrown out of the window because of a broken heart, stress at work, lack of appreciation in our current relationship or just because we don't feel good enough. I'm sorry to say lady but in 2009 friends are the biggest critics, I say this because as females watch other women blossom in their career fields, or watch them enjoy the blessings of motherhood, or witness their best friend jump the broom a sense of jealously well maybe insecurity comes over them. This is where being 25 goes wrong we're stuck between a rock and a hard place and the easiest thing to do is pass judgement on the friend that's having the time of her life whether she is the club hopper, the gold digger, the dream chaser, or the SEXUALLY LIBERATED. So to answer your question yes we have reached the peak of saying so what I'm gonna do me, but yet and still be careful who you tell for some are quick to judge...

Remember these are just my thoughts

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

ALREADY HOME...

2009-09-13T10:05:00.000-07:00

I took the summer off from blogging to give myself some time to clear my mind, you know figure out my direction, I often questioned myself "what is my next step" everyone wants to get to the top but there isn't a manual for achieving success. So I spent the summer soul searching, adjusting my look, dating (of course) even taking a shot at using the word LOVE again. Needless to say I'M BACK.

Send any topics you'd like me to discuss to Elegant718@aol.com, as well as your questions for Ask Leah...

Will be in Touch

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Happy Fathers Day

2009-06-20T16:53:00.000-07:00

President Obama gave the first BBQ on the White House Lawn in history... He invited several celebrity fathers, influential men, and local teen boys. Dwyane Wade, Alonzo Mourning, Etan Thomas, the President of Motorola, the President of Morehouse, and many other men were in attendance.

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

Bringing the boys to the YARD...

2009-06-02T06:40:00.000-07:00

The other night I had the pleasure of going to a chic spot named STANTON SOCIAL, Dinner was served downstairs while the bar lounge location upstairs was intimate yet full of life. I had previously heard about a cute drink called THE MILKSHAKE SHOT, So I eagerly ordered a few... The milkshake shots are a combination of milk shake and whisky, at a small price of two dollars the shots cant be beat...

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On the Come up...

2009-06-01T06:56:00.000-07:00

Natasha Day, fashionably known as Mz.Ktoure has been styling for a year now in the Washington Dc Metro area. Originally a marketing major, she has always had interest in fashion. Volunteering as a dresser/ runner, she finally stepped through the door of the fashion industry through interning for DC Fashion Week in the Fall 2007. This lead her to meet the designer Brian Vargas (of Verdette). Working for Brian as clothing line representative and assistant to designer, Natasha found her calling as a wardrobe stylist and pick up the nickname Mz.Ktoure,"The Unsung Socialite" from friends. Not able to afford styling courses at the time, she bought book on styling from previous fashion students and used them for guidance. After a 3 month "break" from styling because of family hardship, April 2009 Mz.Ktoure arose like a Phoenix from ashes to grasp on to her dream. Using faith as a the main tool in her stylist kit, Mz.Ktoure is hitting the fashion industry hard.
See Natasha's Portfolio at
MzKtoure.carbonmade.com
ModelMayhem.com/MzKtoure
The Stylist...

Her Work

Photos shot by Tony Veloz Photography
Contact Her

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Anton Dickerson Selects Howard University...

2009-05-26T05:13:00.000-07:00

The time that so many of us have been waiting for has finally arrived, our question of where High School Basketball Star Anton Dickerson will attend college is answered... On Wed. May 21st 2009 Anton Dickerson made a Verbal commitment to Howard University, the prestigious Historical Black College that is nestled in the heart of Washington D.C.

For my own personal reasons I am invested in the career of Anton Dickerson because he is my youngest brother, it prides me to see him follow in the path that I the eldest of six have laid for my siblings to follow. Anton is not only following my path but he is attending the Alma Mata of our sister Shyah Dickerson (The Publicist). When Shyah heard the news she was excited for her younger brother she stated "He is making the right choice, not just in sport but in education, Howard University Breeds Success...

Five Boro Sports interviewed Anton Dickerson first and this is what he had to say, “It wasn’t a hard decision to make,” he said. “Howard wanted to change the program around, get tough kids from New York. They want winners. Playing time is available, we can come in and just work hard.”

Anton will be joining one time reveal St. Raymond’s guard Tyreak Johnson in coach Gil Jackson’s recruiting class.

The Dickerson Family gives special thanks to assistant coach Elmer Anderson who believed in Antons career since day one, Anderson has never stopped supporting Anton. Elmer told Five Boro “Anton was getting a little antsy about the whole process, we were baffled why he wasn’t getting offers.” Eventually they came. And Wednesday afternoon, Dickerson finally ended the arduous process. It came as a relief, he said, not having to worry about his immediate future or taking calls from coaches who may or may not be interested in his services. He is secure. “I’m tickled to death,” Anderson said. “He’s a kid that worked hard for four years.”

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Not one but TWO...

2009-05-14T17:48:00.000-07:00

After One last chance for our Girl Jasmina Anema, and thousands of people flooding bone-marrow donor drives, a pair of near-perfect matches have been found for the 6-year-old leukemia victim who has captivated the city. Two bone marrow matches have been found and according to the New York Daily News, if her cancer cells are once again undetectable and either of the donors pass a medical screening, prepping for her transplant will likely begin in a few weeks. Great news for Jasmina and her family!

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

Finding My Character...

2009-05-12T09:12:00.001-07:00

My acting Coach TRACY MOORE MARABLE gave me a homework assignment WRITE A CHARACTER BREAKDOWN FOR YOURSELF... This exercises allows you to distinguish who you are before you are able to portray someone else...

The Character Breakdown of Leah Janell…

If you could name one word to describe Leah Janell, what would that word be…
Sociable, Beautiful, Kind, Loving, loyal, Bitch, Honest, Hilarious, Generous, Sensitive, Supercajafragalistic, Enigma, Boring, Amazing, Courageous, Creative, Selfless, Extravagant, Focused, Swaggalicious, Influential, Fun, Inspiring, Dialectical, Dramatic, Classy, Crazy, Cool, Shot Caller, Fantastic, Silly, Ambitious, Magnificent, Phenomenal, Determined, Bossy, Daring, Over Achiever, Diva, Go Getter, Kind Hearted, Breathtaking, Uncensored, Persistent, Passionate, Blessed, favored, Benevolent, Enthusiastic, Sensitive, Outspoken, Bold…

I often have a difficult time speaking about myself, I mean lets be honest who does not think highly of themselves. I wanted a chance to be honest with myself and others, so I allowed my friends and family share this assignment with me. With one simple question I asked IN ONE WORD PLEASE DESCRIBE ME, and the words you find above are the answers I received. I believe that you are what you contribute to the world, to society, to your community, to someone else's life. Your are the mirror image of the impact that you have on someone else.
In so many ways I consider myself a role model, I am the assistant coach of a cheer team and everyday I am faced with different questions from these young girls for example “How old were you when you got your first tattoo and how old do you think I should be when I get mine.” I know that my response is something that these young girls will carry with them for years to come. I am also a risk taker, there came a point in my life where there was no longer a plan, no blue print to follow, I had to create my own path. I had finally graduated college and accomplished all that my parents had asked of me, now it was my time to find myself. So with a few dollars and a dream I moved to LA and though it was a trying experience I HAVE TRULY FOUND MYSELF.
I am a person of many faces, many traits, and many styles but over all I am ME. A unique individual who is optimistic, and prepared to take life by the horns and ride this thing out to the wheels come off…

Oh No He Didn't !!!

2009-04-29T20:26:00.000-07:00

After my last post one of my readers wanted me to answer the question "WHY DO AFRICAN AMERICAN WOMEN GET UPSET WHEN THEY SEE A BLACK MAN WITH A WOMEN OF ANOTHER RACE? For me that was a hard question to answer because I honestly could careless about race. Relationships for me are about so much more attraction, connection, bond, personalities, race seems to be last on the totem pole. So I turned to my followers on Twitter (www.twitter.com/leahjanell FOLLOW ME SHAMELESS PLUG)to get their opinion. One young lady said "IT ONLY BOTHERS ME IF THE MALE HAS BRAIDS OR DREAD LOCKS, OR IF HE IS REALLY DARK SKINNED" Now when she said that I assumed it was because most individuals with dreads are more culturally aware IDK. But when I asked her why she replied because its not like a white woman would be able to twist their locks, or braid their hair, I found that hilarious... I think most African American women look at successful black men who date women of other nationalities as cop outs. But personally I have always wanted to date a man like my father dark skin, great smile, amazing personality, so when I see an interracial couple it makes me wonder why did he stray away from what his mom was like, why wouldn't he want to date a women that reminds him of his mother... Interracial dating can lead to so many questions but at the end of the day its to each is own, whatever makes you happy...

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

Cooking, Cleaning and Freaking...

2009-04-28T15:02:00.000-07:00

I have come to realize that alot of African American men love hispanic women. For the past year I have wondered why I mean is it a long hair light skin thing and if so there are many black girls with those same features so it had to be more than that. So here is my theory the TYPICAL Hispanic female lives by the creed LET ME CATER TO YOU while most African American girls are striving to be Ms Independent. Now there is nothing wrong with either position but we as African American women have to learn that though we are independent and strong we don't have to always wear our strength on our sleeve. We are quick to tell a man we don't need them and where they can go and what we can do on our own. We are quick to say I'm not cooking tonight when a spanish girl understands that when he comes home he doesn't want to hear all the extra sh!t he wants the house cleaned, dinner on the table and some good loving when he's done eating... So I am taking some time to learn about the other side, to learn to submit more, instead of being all about me, me, me, Leah Janell is Cooking Cleaning and Freaking

Never Say Never

2009-04-20T17:18:00.000-07:00

Whats the deal my people, I have been extremely busy lately you know twittering my life away LOL... But no really on a serious note lately I have been faced with some challenging situations. You know how when your were growing up and you would say " WHAT! Not me, I would NEVER do that!!! Then as you grow up you see yourself doing just the things that you said you never would do. I remember being 10 years old at my uncles house and he left a budweiser on the table my cousin and I both took a swig, and to our surprise what happened to be my uncles favorite thirst quencher, tasted like the nastiest thing on earth to us. After that experience I said I will NEVER EVER drink alcohol. Low and behold my freshmen year of college changed all of that... But now I want to know what are some of the things that you all may have said NEVER to and then eventually WILLINGLY experienced. Have you ever went back to a guy after he put his hands on you. I mean after seeing RIRI we all said I would NEVER go back to him if I were her. Have you ever dated a married man? Did you pick up a smoking habit. Come on guys whats that one thing that you said you would never do BUT LATER YOU DID IT...

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

#1 Fan...

2009-04-09T14:22:00.000-07:00

RiRi who was scheduled to spend one hour with Jasmina decided to stay for the entire day, the two played catch, polished nails and did make up... Jasmina is said the be Rihanna's number 1 fan and was totally excited to have RiRi spend the day with her.

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

GOT DAMN SHES FINE, BUT SHE PARTY'S ALL THE TIME...

2009-04-08T17:57:00.000-07:00

So I think Jay said it best, all men love a beautiful woman and it makes it all the more better if shes educated and employed. Now take that same chick and put her in Home on Sunday night popping Bottles and dancing on Tables, and on Tuesday night she's across the street at the Pink Elephant doing it all over again. Wed. shes back at it at Kiss & Fly, Thursday Room Service, Friday Mansion and Saturday The Sky Bar... Now let me ask how is this same female perceived. I took a TWITTER survey Today and I received various comments, men are not impressed with a woman who is in a different club every night of the week. Even if this same young lady has her situation together. One of my followers on Twitter stated "I hate it Leah, that is so wack... To be honest I think its shows alot about a female who is always in the club, real talk I'm like Damn Ma you need to sit down..." The end result is men like women who have a bit of mystery to them, and if your always in the club he knows exactly where to find you. Its not the greatest look...

Leah Janell In My Shoes

LIL MAMA VISITS OUR LIL MAMA

2009-04-06T07:09:00.000-07:00

Last week Lil Mama took the time out to visit our Little Princess JASMINA... I'm sure this was not an easy road traveled seeing as how Lil Mama lost her mom to Cancer in 2008... Lets continue to Pray for Jasmina she is still in desperate need of a bone marrow match.... Visit www.oneforjasmina.com

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Absolutely FABO...

2009-04-02T13:06:00.000-07:00

Somebody Stop Them... Rhianna and her bestie Mellisa Ford look amazing as they arrive in Hawaii LOVE THE LOOKS LADIES... I would say its a KNOCK OUT look but then people would say I'm wrong LOL...

Leaving a Tip...

2009-04-01T07:22:00.000-07:00

How Often do you TIP? Once I went on a trip to Vegas and I thought to myself TIPing IS OUT OF CONTROL. We had to tip the door man, and the hotel clerk, and the taxi driver, not to mention the waiters at all the restuarants we ate at. The TIP game in VEGAS was insane. But with that I say if you expect good service employees expect good tips. But who do you tip, when do you tip and most importantly HOW MUCH DO YOU TIP? What surprises me the most is that as African Americans we often go to a black owned establishment and tip lightly but when we go to a white owned establishment we tip more. Why are we not supporting our people as we do others...

The Reality Round Up...

2009-04-01T06:58:00.000-07:00

Whats going on my people, I know those of you who are regulars are thinking "WHATS GOING ON" but I'm back, just took a little break, needed to regroup... With that being said, as you all know I am on the REALITY SHOW bandwagon...

Lets Start with T.I.'S ROAD to REDEMPTION...
MTV allowed T.I. to air his community Service project THE ROAD TO REDEMPTION, where T.I. "TIP" HARRIS is making an effort to redeem himself from his past mistakes by saving 7 teenagers who are on the wrong path from facing the same destructive path that he has faced... Week after Week I am touched by the different stories that these teens share. Just watching teenagers live a life so violent and destructive is scary. Their was one story that stood out to me, a young man name Anthony who's step father forced him to stay in a gang. Looking in this young mans eyes I could see that he wanted to live a normal and safe life but out of fear he did what he thought he had to do to stay alive. Each teen had a story, Each story touched me. Just to think T.I. helped 7 teens there are so many more out there on these streets just like them... WHATS YOUR COMMUNITY SERVICE...

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

Diddys Other Baby Girl

2009-03-24T07:05:00.000-07:00

Here is Diddys ATL daughter Chance and her mom Sara, doesn't she look just like the twins. If Puff can stand up and take care of Al B. Sure's responsibilities like a man, he should be having Chance featured in Mags and Clothing Spreads as well. She is beautiful and the mom ain't too bad herself WATCH OUT KIM...

If You Knew Better, You Would Do Better...

2009-03-23T08:48:00.000-07:00

HOW DO WE FEEL ABOUT TRISTAN WILDS OF THE WIRE & 90210s LADY FRIEND. Tristan is a cutie who hails from NYC we have watched this baby faced young man show his gangsta talents on HBO's THE WIRE. And we were further impressed when we found out that he would be starring on the remake of the HIT SHOW 90210. Now Tristan has taken the Red Carpet and he is not alone, so HOW DO WE FEEL ABOUT THIS YOUNG LADY... Me personally I am pleased that Tristan is dating an African American girl, he currently resides in LA and we all know that LA is the land of the beautiful and most of our black actors bring white women home to mama. But you know us catty females even with him dating a black girl we always seem to find something wrong... LET ME KNOW WHAT YA'LL ARE THINKING...

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

Giving Back...

2009-03-20T09:28:00.000-07:00

So I kicked it with my mom and her cheerleading team at the bowling Alley this past Friday to celebrate one of her girls Birthday, It was all laughs and fun and lots of cake... Check out these picks of the cutest Cheerleaders in Brooklyn...

Cool or Not Cool

2009-03-20T08:56:00.000-07:00

Don't you hate when your friend starts dating a new dude and shes all of a sudden into whatever he is into... Its like when Angela Simmons dated TK she was reading skate boarding mags, and taking boxing lessons, and wearing hoodies, I mean the next thing you know she would have been wearing Iced out Grills, Thank God he broke up with her... Now is that the case with Beyonce and this Roc-A-Wear belt she is sporting in the pic below... Is it cool or Not Cool that Bey is wearing Roc-A-Wear...

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

Solomons Porch

2009-03-20T08:12:00.000-07:00

My girlfriend Anya and I stopped to have lunch at a local spot in Bed Stuy Brooklyn "Solomons Porch"... Solomons Porch, is an artisic venue, with great food and classical music. On random nights you can find spoken word and poetry being read at Solomons Porch... I felt extremely relaxed and I loved the Food... Solomons Porch is located at 307 Stuyvesant Ave between Hasley St. & Hancock St.

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And the Loving Continues...

2009-03-17T16:45:00.000-07:00

Check out these hot pics of Kim K and her Boo Reggie Bush, I LOVE IT... This is a spread for GQ Magazine...

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Speaks the Truth

2009-03-10T16:28:00.000-07:00

We all recall when Kanye dropped this bar...
She said she would do anything for a Klondike, but I'll do anything for a Blonde Dyke... Guess Kanye verse rains true...
Rumor has it that Amber Rose Kanyes Lady Friend has had a lady friend of her own before...

Guess Amber needed an upgrade
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OLD VERSES NEW WEARING SEE THROUGH...

2009-03-10T16:09:00.000-07:00

Check out Amber Rose Kanyes Chick and Brooke Kanyes Ex, both sporting see through dresses. My question is who rocked theirs best... I'm bias so you be the Judge...
KANYE AND AMBER DURING PARIS FASHION WEEK...

BROOKE AT THE HARLEM HEIGHTS PREMIERE PARTY

May the best chick win...
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The Upgrade...

2009-03-10T15:40:00.000-07:00

Ok so I'm totally obsessed with Kanye and his new chick Amber Rose I think they compliment each other so well...
Here's a few pics of this stylish chick, she always wears the best color lipstick and her accessories are outstanding...
But before we do that lets take a trip down memory lane...
So we recall a few years back when Kanye pulled this rabbit out of his hat, LOL yes maam our cast favorite Brooke of Harlem Heights...

Shortly after Brooke exploded on bloggers via her myspace page and got her new D cups the relationship ENDED...
A fews months, a "NUMBER ONE TRACK" AND A REMIX LATER Kanye introduced us to the lovely designer Alexis...
I think we all loved Alexis for having her own dreams and aspirations we were happy to know she wasnt just "KANYES GIRL"

The relationship was short lived, but inspired an amazing album but we still all have one question "HOW COULD SHE BE SO HEARTLESS"
Today Kanye is not only standing by the infamous statement that George Bush doesnt not care about Black ppl but he has upgraded to his latest sensation AMBER ROSE

Now if thats not an upgrade I dont know what is...
Leah Janell: In My Shoes

One For Jasmina...

2009-03-09T15:33:00.000-07:00

As promised I attended the One For Jasmina Bone Marrow Donor drive, as I drove through the city with my windows down and my music blasting, I felt great knowing that I was headed to an event that was dedicated to saving a life. As I approached the block of Jasmina's public school where the event was held tears came to my eyes. I watched as people peacefully formed a line and waited to get called into the building, I was inspired by all of the posters and fliers that were plastered on the walls of the school and the street poles encouraging people to come out and support. The drive was very oganized the moved quickly and hundreds of people came out to support. I am certain that we will find ONE FOR JASMINA...

Shyah and Atilie were in attendance

So were Taylor and Chanelle

Jasmine Supported

Khalia did too

Nakisha arrived from LA just in time to support

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Community Service...

2009-03-09T15:06:00.000-07:00

Some how I managed to get up early Saturday morning to help the cheerleaders prepare for their competition. As you can see I was on my MAC Cosmetics tip hooking the girls up with some eye make up. It feels good to give back to the community.

By the way both teams Junior Varsity and Varsity came in first place.

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On Set...

2009-03-08T22:41:00.000-07:00

Here's a few pics from a shoot I did last week for a group of film students at Hunter College the experience was great, I love not only meeting new people but having the opportunity to display my craft in font of them is amazing.... Hey its all in a days work, directed by Ama Korankyi the piece is not yet titled...

PLEASE HELP SAVE JASMINA!!!

2009-03-05T08:25:00.000-08:00

Saturday March 7, 2009 New York, NY

Why:
Jasmina is a beautiful, truly special little five-year old girl. Her world changed drastically on January 20. That was the day that she found out she was suffering from acute leukemia. Jasmina needs a bone marrow transplant in order to survive. She desperately needs to find her match. YOU can be her match! Please come out and register and you can be the one that saves her life!

Posing a Threat...

2009-03-05T07:38:00.000-08:00

Maybe some of you females today are sitting back listen to many SEX WITH MY EX tracks... But this morning I would like to pose a question "HOW DO YOU THINK YOU MAKE YOURSELF LOOK WHEN YOU ARE CONSTANTLY COMPLAINING TO YOUR MAN ABOUT HIS EX" I mean if you have never caught him with her, caught them on the phone, If she lives in another state and the most contact they might have is over myspace, then don't you think he most likely has moved on. I mean to each relationship I guess its a different scenario, so tell me this WHEN SHOULD THE PRESENT DAY CHICK BE WORRIED ABOUT HER MAN & HIS EX.... In my personal opinion if you know what you and your man have then no female should be able to make you feel insecure about your relationship. Furthermore if you do feel threatened NEVER NEVER NEVER LET YOUR MAN KNOW YOU FEEL THREATENED. His phone is his phone, his email is his email, his myspace is his myspace along with his facebook, his wallet, his twitter. You always want to give your man enough room to breath, always make him feel like you trust him even if you have a thought in the back of your mind. AND TRUST IF THE EX IS AN EX SHE'S AN EX FOR A REASON... GIVE IT A REST...
THIS IS JUST MY OPINION AND YOU ARE ENTITLED TO YOURS, FEEL FREE TO LEAVE A COMMENT...

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

Still a Teen Movie...

2009-03-05T07:09:00.000-08:00

Saturday Night, My partners and I joined My sister Shyah (The Publicist), Brandi Womack (The Socialite), Taylor Cook (The Stylist), Moe Johnson (The Model), and THE REAL YOUNG HARLEM LOL... For the Still a Teen Movie Press Event... As I arrived at Kaufman Furs I realized I was in the same exact fur show room that 50 Cent to Rick Ross's baby's mother to purchase her fur coat. As the D.J. played endless 50 Cent tracks I was expecting 50 to jump out at any time screaming YOU GET A FUR, AND YOU GET A FUR ,AND YOU GET A FUR, LOL JOKES... Though this was a press event for a movie I felt like I was trapped in a music video as countless video model, after video mode,l after video model, entered the room. The main reason my partners and I attended was to meet and shake hands with new budding actor Jason Hurt which is the lead in the film. Over all the event was great, I am highly anticipating the film it should be a Block Buster hit.

The DJ

Moe Johnson (The Model) & Lito (My Partner)

Taylor Cook (The Stylist)

Shyah Shaday Dickerson (The Publicist)

Shyah (The Publicist) & Brandi Womack (The Socialite)

Jason Hurt (The Actor)

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SHE NEEDS OUR HELP...

2009-03-04T09:26:00.000-08:00

Jasmina Anema must get bone marrow soon to survive.

Everything became surreal because she's always been so healthy and so wonderful,' said Theodora Anema, Jasmina's mother.

Giancarli for News
Jasmina was diagnosed with NK cell Leukemia on Jan. 20.
Jasmina Anema turns 6 years old Wednesday, and the birthday party planned for her - with a fashion show, cake and an appearance by singer Kelly Rowland - is a dream come true.
But the celebration could be Jasmina's last.
The bubbly Greenwich Village kindergartner is suffering from a rare and especially fatal form of leukemia that doctors fear will take her life within two months unless she receives a bone-marrow transplant.
Jasmina's family - and celebrities like Rihanna and NBA star Paul Pierce, who were touched by her plight - hope a donor drive Saturday will produce the match needed to save her.
"I need thousands of people to come," Jasmina's mother, Theodora Anema, said Tuesday at NYU Medical Center as her ailing child clung to her neck.
"She's the love of my life."
Jasmina's life was turned upside down on Jan. 20 when a doctor informed her she was suffering from NK cell Leukemia.
The news was crushing. Anema had no idea the minor infection on her daughter's toe was a sign of something so sinister.
"Everything became surreal because she's always been so healthy and so wonderful," said Anema, a fashion designer and single mom.
Suddenly, Jasmina was in a fight for her life.
Daily bouts of radiation and chemotherapy began and quickly took their toll.
Her long locks are now gone. Her mouth is riddled with sores, sometimes so painful she cannot speak. And her immune system has become dangerously weakened.
Worse still, Jasmina's leukemia is proving especially difficult to treat.
"The leukemia is growing faster than the chemo can kill it," Anema said.
Even before the start of her daughter's treatment, Anema knew the battle would be fierce.
Because Jasmina is adopted and has no sibling, finding a donor match - which would most likely come from an African- American - is especially difficult.
Further complicating the search is that African-Americans are underrepresented in the national donor network and their DNA tends to be more varied.
"It's one in a million," Anema said. "We really need the African-American community to step up."
Some big names have already joined the cause.
Moved by a video a family friend made, pop sensation Rihanna has made a public plea for people to sign up as bone- marrow donors - done with a simple cheek swab.
Pierce and fellow NBA star Christopher Wilcox also have also helped get the word out.
Still, a match has yet to be found. For Anema, the waiting and worrying is something she says no one should ever endure.
"I don't want anyone in this world to ever have to wait for a bone-marrow donor, or even to have the uncertainty of finding someone," Anema said. "It's the worst situation to be in."
Jasmina's donor drive will be held Saturday at Public School 41 (116 W. 11Th St.) from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. For more information, contact DKMS, a nonprofit marrow donor center: (866)-340-3567.

Rare Sighting...

2009-03-04T07:09:00.000-08:00

This was a first for me, while in a park on 124Th Street and 5Th Ave in Harlem I noticed this little creature running around...

The black squirrel is a melanistic subgroup of the eastern grey squirrel. They are common in Midwestern North America and, in some places, outnumber the grey squirrels by a ratio of about ten to one.

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

The Voice of Reason

2009-03-04T06:58:00.000-08:00

We all have an opinion and some things we would just like the world to hear, well In My Shoes has added a new column THE VOICE OF REASON where you my readers will be able to email me anything that is resting on your mind... Email me at elegant718@aol.com, Here is one of my readers out of North Carolina. Make sure you leave a comment and let him know what you think about his opinion....

Have we as a people become so emerged in the American fabric that we gleefully copy the same actions of our white counterparts. Take the Rihanna-Chris Brown situation. The black station airwaves are inundated with latest rumor of hearsay masquerading as truth. Have lessons not been learned of past celebrities whose lives become fishbowls. Seemingly, their every movement and syllable open to be scrutinized, opined, and critiqued. Forced into a life of fake names, dark glasses, and flashbulb breakfast. We heard about Marilyn and we sat and watched Princess Di's demise. But that was them, white press feeding a voracious public starving for star-news. But this one is on us! These young black celebs with their whole lives ahead of them are really just people like you and me. How about this for change, lets try staying out of it and not feeding into it (black press) and let the folks figure out what the should do about their situation. Of course we have our opinions based on what we think we know. But just reading that sentence alone should light a light in your mind. Its not your business!

Written By: Eric Wilkins of North Carolina

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Society

2009-03-03T07:55:00.000-08:00

In the brew of all the hype about Harlem Heights, myself and a few friends decided to grab a bite to eat at a local eatery in Harlem "Society"... "Society" is on 114Th and Fredrick Douglass Blvd. the one thing about Society that some may love or hate is that its family styled dining. So if you are not with a large party you can almost expect someone you don't know to be dining with you. The food was great my sister Shyah and I ordered the crab cake sandwich.

My Partners Ola and Lito joined us

and the REAL YOUNG HARLEM graced us with his presence as well...

ON THAT NOTE HARLEM STAND UP...

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Harlem Heights

2009-03-03T07:22:00.000-08:00

Just like most of urban American, I stayed up last night to watch BETs highly anticipated new show "HARLEM HEIGHTS"... Harlem Height's had everyone buzzing we wanted to know if Brooke would mention her past relationship with Kanye West, we wondered why the fellas were wearing suits on a Thursday afternoon and eating lunch by the street side. HARLEM HEIGHTS had us all wondering what would this show be about. As I tuned in, my Twitter was flooded with positive and negative feedback about the show, most of the comments I agreed with and others just made me laugh.

I appreciate the element that Brooke adds to the show it is obvious that she is being true to whom she is with the exception of her June Ambrose styled wardrobe.

Pierre is a cutie and because of him I will continue to tune in. Most of the viewers are hoping that the show will grasp the cultural aspect of what Harlem is.

While others are hoping that JASON reveals his true identity as opposed to the swag he jacked from the Real Young Harlem. Overall I would rate the first two episode at an 8 and I will be tuning in next week as the rest of you should. Lets show support and keep this Black Star Power progressing...

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

MR. PRSEIDENT SUPPORTS HIS BULLS

2009-02-28T20:44:00.000-08:00

LOOKS LIKE OUR PRESIDENT IS STILL SUPPORTING HIS CITY HEAVY, HE CAME OUT TO SUPPORT THE CHICAGO BULLS AS THEY PLAYED AGAINST THE WASHINGTON WIZARDS THIS PAST FRIDAY... WATCH THE VIDEO CLIP TO HEAR THE CROWDS RESPONSE AS HE ENTERS THE BUILDING... LOVES IT

OH AND THE BULLS STILL LOSS...

STEVE HARVEY DOES OPRAH...

2009-02-27T13:22:00.000-08:00

Oprah invited Steve Harvey to come and talk about his Newly Released #1 Best Sellers Book Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man...
Oprah, and Gail grilled Steve for details on tips that he gave to uplift women in the book. Here are a few of the High lighted Tips that I thought stood out...
Here we go Ladies...
Steve Says
After six months a man should give you a title when he introduces you to ppl he should say this is my girl Leah, My friend Leah, My baby momma Leah but if he says this is Leah you need to move on your are NOTHING...
I happened to agree with Steve on this matter, the sad thing is we as women don't know how to approach a man after a certain amount of time and ask where do we stand. We often find out our status in situations like this.
Steve Says
MEN WANT RESPECT, LOYALTY, AND THE COOKIE LOL LOL LOL MEN CAN NOT BE WITH A WOMAN AND HAVE ONE OF THE THREE HE MUST HAVE ALL THREE
I also agree with Steve on this one, Men want to have the control, they don't want you creeping, and sex is important...
Steve Says
YOUR DAD SHOULD ALWAYS ASK WHAT YOUR MANS INTENTIONS ARE WITH THEIR DAUGHTER
Loves it, my dad has no problem asking and I have no problem letting him ask...
Steve Says
KEEP YOUR STANDARDS WHERE THEY ARE DO DON'T DROP THEM FOR ANYTHING MAKE THEM MEET YOUR STANDARDS
Ok Steve I'm still with you, we as women seem to often change our standards according to the new GUY, but in the end we are often asking the same question WHY...
Steve Says
THE 90 DAY RULE WAIT 90 DAYS BEFORE YOU SLEEP WITH A MAN
LOL, This one is tricky but I suppose its true... Steve's gave his take he said sleeping with a new guy is like getting a new job you have to wait 90 days before your probation period is over then and only then will you be able to receive benefits. Consider sex a benefit... SLOW DOWN LADIES
Steve Says
THE WORST THING YOU CAN SAY TO A MAN IS "WE NEED TO TALK" JUST TALK TO HIM DON'T SET UP THE CONVO WITH WE NEED TO TALK...
True why let them know whats coming, pop it up on them lol...
Steve Says
OLD SCHOOL IS NOT DEAD, STOP TEXTING GET FACE TO FACE
OMG I LOVE TEXTING YIKES
STEVE SAYS
YOU WANT AND NEED A MAN WHO IS GOING TO PULL ALL STOPS FOR YOU PERIOD...
Who wouldn't agree with that

YOU CAN PURCHASE THE NUMBER 1 ADVISE BOOK ACT LIKE A LADY, THINK LIKE A MAN AT ANY MAJOR LOCAL BOOK RETAIL LOCATION

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Blame it...

2009-02-26T07:21:00.000-08:00

Check out Jamie Fox ft. T-Pain new video for the clubs latest banger BLAME IT... The video is extremely classy, upscale and fun to watch. It takes us back when videos were a bid deal... Check out cameos by Morris Chestnust, Tatayana Ali, Bill Bellamy, Jake Gyllenhaal, Quincy Jones, Ron Howard and Forest Whitaker.

ENJOY!!!

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

Good for Lunch or for Dinner...

2009-02-24T11:40:00.000-08:00

So I love shrimp and I love Cesar salad so I deiceded to combine the two and make this dish at home on my own. After seasoning my shrimp, I smothered the shrimp in Cesar dressing and let them cook on a low fire. When the shrimp were done I added them in a bowl with my Romain lettuce, Instead of adding more dressing I used all of the dressing from the pan with the shrimp and stirred. Dressing can add alot of calories to your meal so its best to make a large bowl of salad and apply the dressing instead of adding dressing per serving... LOVED THE SHRIMP CESAR SALAD...

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

Movie Review: Madea goes to jail...

2009-02-24T11:08:00.000-08:00

This past weekend my parents treated my siblings and I to see the newly released Tyler Perry film MADEA GOES TO JAIL, this highly anticipated film sent us to theaters at 12noon to purchase tickets for the 8pm screening. When my family and I arrived there were no seats left, the entire house was packed with the exception of the first row. As my mom, dad, two brothers, their girlfriends, my youngest sister and cousin took our seats we were the last guest to make the theater jammed pack... Finally the movie can begin. I love the fact that Tyler Perry has followed in the foot steps of Spike Lee by using the same actors in his project. Most of the cast was reoccurring had it been on one of his hit television shows, or his stage plays or another film we had seen most of the actors before. The movie was split into two story lines and while the story line of Madea going to jail was funny, it was certainly less entertaining than the love sequence... It was great to see Derek Luke yet again doing a phenomenal job in another film, and Keisha Knight Pulliams performance was simply short of perfection it saddens me to see that Keisha made her claim to fame as Rudy Huxtable and now she cant break out of it... Overall I would give the film an 8, and still I recommend that we all go out and support it and not wait for it to come on bootleg lol...

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

Eliminating the Carbs

2009-02-24T10:43:00.000-08:00

Since I have started my diet I am basically cutting back on things that I love the most that are not necessary great for me... One of the many things I love is bread... So I came up with a lunch that includes meat, cheese and lettuce but no bread a turkey and cheese lettuce wrap... Dieting doesn't have to be too much to bare just a slight cut back from your regular intake and some working out in your home or in the gym...

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

LEARNED A NEW TRICK

2009-02-22T16:48:00.000-08:00

I AM SO VERY PROUD OF MYSELF I TOTALLY JUST LEARNED HOW TO RECORD ON MY CAMERA, DOWNLOAD ONTO MY LAPTOP AND UPLOAD ONTO BLOGGER YOU CAN ALMOST BET YOUR LIFE THAT YOU WILL BE GETTING ALOT MORE VIDEO ENTRIES, YIPEEEEE... ENJOY THE FINAL WALK AT THE BABY PHAT SHOW AND YOU CAN ONLY GUESS WHAT THEY ARE WALKING TOO...

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

This past week...

2009-02-22T11:54:00.001-08:00

I was pleased and pissed about a few things that went on in our world this week...

Pleased
That someone in the entertainment industry spoke out against the post this week and did it so eloquently... MUCH LOVE AND RESPECT TO JOHN LEGEND Go to http://www.johnlegend.com/us/blog/open-letter-new-york-post to read his open letter to the post...

Pleased

I think this pair can continue to paint the town red for years to come, if they choose too. Kanye West makes a statement without saying a word and I think he needs a strong women by his side who can do the same. The pair went from shows to clubs through out this fashion week and I must say I enjoyed watching them... Plus Amber is working the hell out of those RED pants I will be making a purchase of those very same pants this week...

Pissed

I was pissed that TMZ leaked the photo of Rhianna's bruised and battered face to the Public, when the altercation between the two stars occurred many ppl asked why I hadn't blogged about it and the one thing I could say was, HOW CAN YOU COMMENT ON SOMETHING WHEN I DO NOT KNOW THE FULL DETAILS. I refuse to put out a post of speculations. What I do realize is that domestic violence is extremely prevalent today, people fall in love, they fight, they make up, and they love again. And while I don't condone this type of UNHEALTHY AND QUITE CHILDISH behavior. I do understand that domestic violence is just a mere fact of life. But I do feel that during this trying time the pair deserve their privacy, and it broke my heart to see this photo released because little girls who look up to her, will remember this image forever. Did TMZ stop to think that Rhianna may actually still love this boy and may actually get back with him. Lets remember yes she is a role model but her commitment is not to the public its to herself. But what if they do get back together will little girls around the world who adore her and viewed that picture think its OK to stay with a man who physically abuses them, GOOD QUESTION HOW ABOUT YOU PUT THAT IN YOUR PIPE AND SMOKE IT TMZ...

Pissed

The comic strip published by the post this week, I mean did they not think that people would relate the chimp to President Obama especially after mentioning the stimulus bill... WHAT JERKS...

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

The last Supper

2009-02-22T11:18:00.000-08:00

My girlfriend Anya took me to dinner for my "last supper" before I start my diet. She decided that we would go somewhere close to home that the food would be great and served fast... We went Downtown Brooklyn to a small place called THE SMOKE JOINT... The Smoke Joint is located on Fulton Street not too far from the landmark BAM, BROOKLYN ACADEMY OF MUSIC... We parked the car and walked around the block as we turned the corner I could smell the BBQ food, I felt like it was the Fourth of July. My mouth watered as I watched a waiter walk pass me with a plate of spare ribs. I thought to myself, oh yeah that's just what I'm gonna get...

We requested seats near the window as we reviewed the menu, I noticed something that my late grandmother use to cook chopped BBQ so I went ahead and I ordered that instead...

Anya ordered the cat fish

Overall I would give the Smoke Joint an 8, I had to take one point away for the limited wine selection and another point away for the collard greens they just were not like my grandmothers cooking...

Visit the Smoke Joint 87 South Elliot Place between Fulton and Lafayette

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THIS JUST IN...

2009-02-19T22:12:00.000-08:00

LEBRON JAMES HAS BEEN ADDED TO THE TOP FIVE SEXIEST NBA PLAYERS, AFTER VIEWING THESE PHOTOS THAT LITTLE BOY WHO PLAYS AROUND TOO MUCH ON THE COURT JUST TURNED INTO A FULL GROWN MAN AND I LOVE IT...

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

ALL ACCESS PASS...

2009-02-19T07:34:00.000-08:00

I had the pleasure of attending the Baby Phat Fashion Week Fashion Show, and I must admit it was certainly amazing. There is something that I love about the industry, I'm not sure if its the lights, the cameras, the red carpets or the C list celebs who refuse to sit in the second row LOL... When my sister Shyah (Public Relations for Baby Phat) asked me to work their fashion week event I was certainly eager. I was asked to escort front row celebs to their seats. When the doors opened the first celebs that I had to seat were Ice T and his wife COCO (that is his wife right) but as the B/C list celebs began to arrive that's where I ran into my problem. WHO THE HELL SAT TEYANA TAYLOR AND HER MOM IN THE SECOND ROW, is what her manager wanted to know. and Chrisette Michelle kindly refused to sit down until her front row seat was available. Trust me at a larger venue all of these guest would have been granted front row seating but this year Kimora did the appropriate thing and opted for an economy friendly venue. At any rate the guest all got the seats they wanted the lights dimmed and the show began. I was pleased by the fashion that came down the run way it was sheer fabolousity. I also loved the fact the diggy, Russels nephew was seated with Djimon Kimoras new man and soon to be baby daddy. As the show ended we watched Kimora and her girls work the run way and all I can say is Aoki is a star in her own right. At the end of the night Sam and I took a few pics with the celebs we adored the most... Overall the event was a success...

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

DO NOT SUPPORT THE NY POST

2009-02-18T12:54:00.000-08:00

I urge everyone to take a look at pg. 12 of todays NY Post.

Our President may be black but bigotry is still prevalent in our society... I urge everyone to call the new york post to voice your outrage 212-930-8000 or send an email to the editor,
Col Allan, at colallan@nypost.com, and the cartoonist, Sean Delonas, at seandelonas@gmail.com....

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FOLLOW ME, FOLLOW ME, FOLLOW ME...

2009-02-16T18:44:00.001-08:00

TWITTER is the Internets NEW WAVE to communication, and I personally LOVE IT. Twitter allows me to Keep up with whats new with the elite crowd. All of my favorite blog posters from Keeping up to Around the way girls have twitter. My closest friends are on there and so is my favorite rapper, YOUNG CHRIS. OH YEAH JAY-Z can be followed on TWITTER as well...

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The U is moving on up

2009-02-16T18:36:00.000-08:00

In an effort to brand our hit show THE U, we have decided to create a blog, as well as join major networks like TWITTER, FACEBOOK AND MYSPACE. Here is an example of what we will be talking about on our blog "WWW.HITSHOWTHEU" Join the most progressive movement in entertainment, follow us on TWITTER, read our blog get your college experience back...

Latest Post on HIT SHOW THE U...
Its a known fact that college students get up for their 8am class, brush their teeth and head out the door. Me personally I was never a fan of wearing my boyfriend P.J.s to class, nor his over sized tee shirt. Class for me always meant a new start, a whole new day and another chance at success, so I made sure that my gear was in tact, my hair was done and my lip gloss was popping... Well for those of you ladies that have a hard time waking up in the morning Victoria Secret has created just the right look for you. Collegiate sweat suits, these new looks are amazingly HOT, TREND SETTING & FUN... Check out my girl Chanel Iman as shes shows us just how to wear them...

Howard University has joined in on the festivities and now Victoria Secret has a Howard University collegiate line featuring these pieces below...

So tell me what you think...

2009-02-13T08:28:00.000-08:00

This is the latest project from No Pounds Entertainment, my partners and I have put our heart, minds and souls into this project. We are hoping to shoot a full season and bring it to you on the silver screen...
Enjoy...

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

Its Not All About You

2009-02-12T21:53:00.000-08:00

In my last post I gave the brothers a few tips on how to make Valentines Day special, so I guess its only right I give the ladies a pep talk... I know that Valentines Day is all about pink and red and chocolates and teddy bears, but just as much as we like to feel special our partner does too. Ladies everyday should be Valentines Day NO MAN wants a woman who is totally dependent on him. Even if you dont have major bucks for a Rolex watch or a plasma screen T.V. do simple things, MEN love to know they are appreciated... Its time we pay attention to what Usher said and TRADE PLACES. This Valentines day be more of a giver than a reciever.
Ask him could you take him to dinner for Valentines Day...
Take him to his favorite spot...
Ask him if you can order for him...
Show him that you know him well order what he loves to eat...
Pick up the tab and only if he offers let him provide the tip...
After dinner cater to him...
Show him the sexy piece you purchased to wear just for him...
If there is one thing that he has been asking you to do but you haven't done it yet DO IT...
When he awakes in the morning leave him a thank you note, express how much the night meant for you, from watching him eat, to his smell, to his touch the more details you give the more reminders he will have about the previous night...

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

Feb. 14th

2009-02-11T15:38:00.000-08:00

Dear Journal,
TODAY HAD TO BE THE WORST DAY EVER, VALENTINES DAY... HE FORGOT...

OMG FELLA'S, FELLA'S, FELLA'S Dont let this be your lady, here are some very helpful tips on how to make this Valentines Day a special one...

Pamper your lady...
Spa Treatments are always needed
Manis, Pedis, Facials, Massages (you know, the basics...)
Now If you would like to be in attendance to share this special occasion I recommend you and your lady travel to THE SPA CASTLE in Queens N.Y. The atmosphere is amazing... Some men feel like the spa is a total waste of time and if that's the case then hit up the Ajune Day Spa on the Upper East Side of Manhattan and get your lady a gift certificate...

Lets Eat...
Gents lets not be afraid to get in the kitchen, go the extra mile, I'm talking down to the white table cloth and the candles. Cook up a meal, if you cant make her favorite meal go for what you know best. Either way its all about the effort and she will appreciate it... Now if the kitchen is something you are totally against then I say select a NEW restaurant that your lady has never experienced before. FRANCHISE RESTAURANTS ARE OUT OF THE QUESTION, NO RED LOBSTER, NO OLIVE GARDEN.
Try B. Smiths, Frederick's, Nikki Beach or even Tao

Gifts
Flowers are always appreciated Try something new, SUNFLOWERS...

Creativity
Make her a card, she will have it forever use constructiion paper and crayons and colored pencils once again its all about the effort and guess what you can write your own message on the inside, which allows you to tell her how you feel instead of some random person doing it for you...

DO NOT ASK YOUR LADY TO MARRY YOU ON VALENTINES DAY ITS SO CLICHE OMG...

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

A balanced breakfast?

2009-02-11T15:31:00.001-08:00

Is what I consider a balanced breakfast a healthy meal at all, I mean we have egg whites and pork bacon (what they didn't have turkey) amazing fruit and sliced avocado... I call it balanced, my mom calls it greed. Lets keep in mind that breakfast is the most important meal of the day, what do you consider a balanced breakfast meal. By the way I was not able to finish all of the food. : )

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The Opportunities are Endless

2009-02-10T06:52:00.001-08:00

Last week I was away from you all for a few days taking care of business, dream chasing "if you will", and I learned one thing that OPPORTUNITIES ARE ENDLESS. As my partners and I walked into B.E.T studio's to have a meeting regarding our latest project I had bubbles in my stomach. So many thoughts flew through my head, what if they don't like it, omg what if they love it. At that very moment I convinced myself that if B.E.T did not enjoy the project another network would and if B.E.T loved the project then we would progress forward, but either way OPPORTUNITIES WERE ENDLESS. Needless to say that meeting was the start of our future it was a great networking opportunity and it finalized that one thought we had "IS THERE ROOM IN THIS INDUSTRY FOR US" and the answer to that was HELL YEAH...

Leah Janell

WET BROWN BREAD...

2009-02-08T22:40:00.000-08:00

When I received a message via facebook stating that one of my schoolmates from college had just released a book, I was super impressed. I remember meeting this young lady for the first time. She was a year or two younger than myself and after getting into an altercation on campus, she was advised by the dean to join my big sister mentoring program. That same young lady stands before me today an author...

Sha-Shana Reid describes herself... I am Sha-Shana, a twenty-six year old graduate of Pennsylvania’s Lincoln University. As a nurturing Jamaican’s last born of two girls, I realized at an early age, that I enjoyed the togetherness of family and the idea of individuals representing separate links to one chain. Early age also introduced to me a very creative bone that supported me through both elementary and high schools. Throughout these years, I wrote hundreds of poems and found myself developing a true relationship with the art in expression through the use of words. Today, I am an author who is able to do just that.

Her newly released novel WET BROWN BREAD is based on a girl who finds out that her life is the product of a brutal rape. With time, Sad discovers more and more about herself and the people around her, the connections between them and their place in her past. She is emotionally detached from herself and allows her father to invade the most delicate parts of her. With life in an orphanage as her only foundation, Sad finds it difficult to stray away from unhealthy ways of living and all that provides her with constancy. So, she makes decisions that best fit her survival needs.

Wet Brown Bread can be purchased online at www2.xlibris.com... Please go out and support Sha Shana

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PUSH

2009-02-08T16:08:00.000-08:00

Director Lee Daniels has done it again, some people may not know the name but you know his work, Shadow Boxer, Monsters Ball yup that's all Lee Daniels. He is back at it again with a film based on the novel PUSH... The film features comedian/actress Monique and singer/actress Mariah Carey. The clip below has drawn me to the project and I cant wait to see it in its entirety...

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A kid at heart

2009-02-02T11:00:00.001-08:00

On Friday my mother asked me to accompany her while she took several of the girls on her cheerleading team ICE SKATING. Let me quickly add that I am not one for athletic activities, sure I love to watch a good game but when your asking for involvement I'm out of there. At any rate I decided to join the girls. Needless to say it was wonderful watching these girls enjoy themselves. Yes watch, I did not even attempt to get on the ice. Some of the girls were really good at Ice Skating and others well you be the judge.

Event Planning 101

2009-02-02T10:46:00.000-08:00

On Saturday I went to my girlfriend's baby shower and I found a few MUST DO's...

Must Do #1 Gifts bags, thank God we are stepping away from those home made, baby shower souvenirs. Gift bags add an element of surprise and class. Inside these gift bags I found a mug that dated the day of the shower, very cute. To make your mug a bit more unique add something in the mug, like candy...

Must Do #2 People are really impressed with the new phenomenon of cupcakes, check out this cup cake tree found at the shower, all of the cupcakes followed the color theme and looked just like small flowers. Extremely elegant I Loved It...

Leah Janell: In My Shoe"s

XLIII

2009-02-02T10:00:00.000-08:00

OMG, OMG, OMG, It feels so good to be from PITTSBURGH, I mean I'm from Brooklyn but I know anyone who lives, grew up or was born in Pittsburgh is still rejoicing over last nights victory. Now me personally the Super Bowl was just another lesson for me, see I have spent 2008 learning all about the game of football. So thats why I chose to watch the big game all by myself. I needed to keep my eyes and ears glued to the screen to make sure I understood exactly what was going on. So lets start with the chill's we received from just seeing Jennifer Hudson finally back on the scene. Though we all know Jennifer was Lip sang, she did an amazing job at it. Then I fixed a plate of baked macaroni, collard greens and bbq spare ribs and I kicked my feet up on the living room table as I watched the game. I was amazed at how the game started, but what might amaze you is how I selected the team I was rooting for, with a black president why not have a black coach take home the victory. I shouted at the television as I watched a young man with the last name Harrison make amazing plays. But it was Santonio Holmes who amazed me most with his final touch down. Overall I can say that the game was amazing and I am so educated on the sport that I am ready to begin the 09 season now...

Leah Janell

Highly Anticipated...

2009-01-29T11:18:00.000-08:00

I must admit that I am totally psyched to see the new film based on NEW YORK TIMES BEST SELLER, He's just not that into You. The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys by author Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo. He's just not that into You has been named a women's daily wake-up call. Well this "Tell it like it is" Book is slated to release a star studded film on Feb. 6Th, 2009. The Film features heavy hitters like Ben Affleck, Jennifer Aniston, Drew Barrymore, Jennifer Connolly, Bradely Cooper, Ginnifer Goodwin, Scarlett Johnasson and Justin Long.

Not to mention that one of my great friends and fellow thespians SABRINA REVELLE who was born and raised in Philadelphia but currently resides in Los Angeles is also featured in the film.

Most of you may recognize Sabrina from BET's Hit Show Hell Date (which I myself did a small stint on) shameless plug lol...

I hope you all go out and support the film...

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

Not the answer...

2009-01-28T19:52:00.000-08:00

This story has hit home for many people today, for those of you who are unaware here is the story. Ervin Antonio Lupoe who had been recently let go from a Kaiser Permanente hospital in West Los Angeles, killed his wife, Ana, their five children: 8-year-old Brittney, 5-year-old twin girls Jaszmin and Jassely and 2-year-old twin boys Benjamin and Christian. He then took his own life after faxing a letter to KABC Channel 7 and calling the LAPD saying, “I just returned home, and my whole family has been shot.”
A suicide note found at the scene “indicated a business dispute” between Lupoe and Kaiser Permanente West Los Angeles Medical Center. In the faxed note to KABC, Lupoe said he was despondent over an employment situation. Both he and his wife were former employees of the medical center. According to reports, there were grounds for termination that did not come as a result of layoffs. Lupoe and his wife then made a suicide pact:

This is one of the saddest stories that I have ever come across, just to know that these parents thought that suicidal-murder was the best way to resolve their fears of not being able to care for their children is scary. Today when our economy is facing its toughest times, when people are being let go from their jobs daily this is an example of the level people are willing stoop to. I truly believe that this incident, (though it was not a lay off caused to the suffrage of the economy) should set off a light bulb. The government needs to set up means of survival for people effected by the recession. I know a man that is 61 years old who was let go from his job of 30 years in the early part of 2008. This individual who had once brought home 75 to 90 thousand dollars a year, who owns 3 homes, only made 26,000 this year. We as a people have not been prepared for a turn like this and we need HELP. There is no way any tax paying citizen should feel like they have nowhere to turn. What do you think the government could do to assist problems of this nature?

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

She's just like me...

2009-01-28T13:51:00.000-08:00

Jamie Foxx has released his latest LP intuition, and it is HOT his first single off of the album featured T.I. and is tilted Just Like Me... Like most R&B music today Jamie leaves us with alot to ponder about on this track. I mean can "MEN REALLY HANDLE A WOMAN WHO DOES ALL THAT HE DOES AND MORE"...Now lets be real "JUST LIKE ME" Isn't saying
she's always at work
Bringing home the bread
putting the kids to bed
shes just like me...
LOL no way, this young lady is just like the average dude, shes in the club popping her own bottles, she knows every male in the room... Somewhere in the song Jamie states "AND I CANT BE MAD". Well I guess he cant be since he's out doing the same thing. But my question to you all is, CAN MEN HANDLE IT? and Furthermore Just because he's doing it does it make it right that we do the same. Ladies lets remember we are always the one who gets the bad name...

Just a few Lyrics...
You, been seeing him, and I know
And I was with her, and you knew about it
But I was too bli-I-ind to see it baby
And you was out here doing
The same thing as me
I wanna ask, has he been by the crib?
Has he been in our, car?
And did you let him, drive?
Cause she's been by the house
She's been in the car
I've even let her push the
Porsche around a couple times
Ohh, we were so the same
I don't know why I can't see it baby
And it ain't a point to feeling blue
You're just like me and I'm just like you

[Chorus: Jamie Foxx]
You're just like me
Shorty all up in the club
Popping bottles of that Bud
Giving all them dudes hugs
And you just like me
She don't know how to act
On the floor back in the back
Man I can't be mad dapslyrics
She just like me-e-ee-e-e
She just like me-e-ee-e-e
She just like me-e-ee-e-e
She just like me...

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

The Family that Preys

2009-01-26T20:16:00.000-08:00

This past Saturday my parents and I sat down to watch a Block Buster film, TYLER PERRY'S The Family that Preys. I have this connection with Tyler Perry when it comes to his work. Tyler reminds me of myself he is a man after his own heart. Its like whatever he touches turns to gold. The family that Preys has an all star cast and each actor brings something amazing to the screen. I was more than happy not to find Madea in this film, I'm going to be completely honest here that's where Mr. Perry Loses me, I mean come on I am sick and tired of him cooning around shucking and jiving in this wig and dress. Madea is funny, I will give him that but shes easy to grow tired of. On another note I was so impressed with Sanaa Lathans performance Sanaa has introduced us to her alter ego "The B!tch" and I loved it. She was able to match Robin Givens sassy persona. The Family that Preys is a must see film, if you haven't seen it already rent it at your local block buster.

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

The Do's and Don'ts...

2009-01-26T05:45:00.000-08:00

To the proposal...

DO propose in a romantic location, take a trip somewhere that your lady has never been, allow it to be a whole new experience for her.

DO use props when proposing, buy your lady a puppy and attach the box to his collar. Every time she looks at her puppy it will remind her of that big day.

DON'T propose on a holiday, NOT Valentines Day, NOR Christmas, not her birthday either, the day you propose should be about you and your lady. Selecting a date is important and that day should ONLY be known as your anniversary. There shouldn't be any other festivities to celebrate on that day.

DON'T mention what you spent on the ring, or how many carats it is. SAVE THAT FOR THE PRIVACY OF YOUR HOME, its classless for everyone in the room to know.

DO ask your ladies father for her hand in marriage.

DO consult her mother, sister OR best friend before purchasing the ring, one of these ladies will know what your lady is looking for in a ring.

DON'T rush your proposal, make sure the time is right, make sure you have saved enough money. No one wants a proposal on a budget.

DO add the element of surprise tell your lady to dress up and meet you at a new restaurant, have her immediate family & friends meet you there as well as. Order for her so upon her arrival you can pop the question, following that dinner can be served and the rest of the night is for laughing, eating and drinking...

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

She said yes...

2009-01-25T21:11:00.001-08:00

Check out the rings these celebs received, WOW some girls have all the Luck...

Many people were surprised at how similar Selita and Mariahs engagement rings from Nick Cannon were... Both rings are extremely beautiful... Mariahs ring sits at 10K...

Check out Ashlee Simpson 5-carat diamond ring...

My personal favorite Vanessa Bryants break up to make ring SUPER SEXY...

Fact: Jayz had an imitation of Beyonces ring created, Beyonce doesn't wear her actual ring on stage or out in the public on a regular basis...

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

The Four C's

2009-01-25T18:56:00.001-08:00

When one of my readers told me he needed help finding the perfect engagement ring for his lady, I was more than glad to add my two cents : )

The one thing I have learned about females is that when it comes to rings all they are concerned with is CARAT. Now we smart girls know that there is so much more to a diamond than carat. So fellas when searching for a ring you must remember The Four C's Clarity, Cut, Carat, and Color...

Clarity- While most people are concerned with Carat, Clarity is surprisingly most important. Clarity describes the presence or absence of inclusions (scratches/blemishes) within the diamond. Inclusions interfere with the light that passes through the diamond(like Jay said NO CLOUDS IN MY STONES) The fewer inclusions a diamond has the more rare and valuable it is.

Here's a breakdown of the Clarity Rating Scale

He Loves Me: FL Flawless (shows no inclusions)
Forever & ever: IF Internally Flawless (no inclusions/insignificant surface)
Ring the Alarm: VVS1 Very Very Slightly Included (minor inclusions difficult to see)
This may work: VVS2 Very Slightly Included(minor inclusions slightly see for the trained eye to see)
He Loves Me Not: SI1-SI2 Slightly Included Imperfect (noticeable Inclusions very easy to see)
I Don't: I1, I2, I3, Obvious inclusions by eye/threaten durability

So I bet you thought CUT was the shape "LIKE I SWEAR I WANT THIS PRINCESS CUT DIAMOND RING" LOL SO SILLY...
The CUT determines the brilliance of the diamond, the width and the depth effects how light travels through the diamond...

Carat what size is best
When selecting a carat weight consider your ladies style, the size of her finger, the size of the setting, YOUR BUDGET an most importantly the carat size of her previously engaged girlfriends ring... WHAT, Y'ALL KNOW YOU HATE HAVING THE SMALLER RING :)

CARAT TIP
THE SMALLER THE FINGER THE LARGER THE DIAMOND WILL APPEAR...

COLOR
POSITIVE Diamonds graded J or better are colorless or near-colorless
NEGATIVE The color in diamonds graded K-Z detracts from the beauty of a diamond.

Please visit bluenile.com for more information on making a diamond purchase...

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

Love and Marriage

2009-01-22T19:13:00.000-08:00

Love and Marriage
Love and Marriage
Go together like a Horse and Carriage
This I tell you Brother
You cant have one without the other...
Love and Marriage
That was the theme song to one of the funniest sitcoms in the 90s but now its 2009 and boy how have times changed, women are no longer bare foot and pregnant and men aren't the only ones bringing home the bacon.... But my question is NOW THAT TIMES HAVE CHANGED DO PEOPLE STILL LOVE JUST FOR LOVE
In a recent conversation with a girlfriend of mine she stated that "All Men Cheat", and she would rather have a wealthy husband who cheated as opposed to a broke man who cheated. The scariest part of that conversation for me was that I agreed with her. Its weird because I wonder "WHEN DO WOMEN STOP SETTLING" or is that just apart of the deal. What is even more scary is the women who don't settle are often the ones that get labeled. In an recent episode of Real Housewives of Orange County Vicki and tried to convince Gretchen that she should talk to her sickly fiance about what would be left to her in his will. Now I was totally appalled by the fact that these women thought it was even remotely right to ask a man on his death bed about money. But lets look at the flip side, she's living in his house, not working because she is caring for him and God Forbid he passes and leaves everything to his children whom of which she is not the mother of she is left with nothing. So should she settle or boss up and tell homie "LOOK I KNOW YOUR DYING AND ALL BUT PLEASE LEAVE MOST OF YOUR ASSETS TO ME.

So Does Love and Marriage still go hand and hand or is Marriage more of a business arrangement these days...

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

Event Planning 101

2009-01-21T16:56:00.000-08:00

How Important is the Cake...

The cake is the end all say all of events, Try to tie your cake into your theme...

This year my grandmother turned 75 and instead of flying her back to her home town of NYC, the entire family brought NYC to her... Even with this Statue of Liberty theme cake...

This past summer my partners and I had a screening for our very first project, "OFF TOPIC" so what better than a cast inspired cake...

In August when I gave my sister and her friends "A little black dress" birthday bash, I thought the guest would love the have a variety of cakes to choose from. So I got 5 different cakes, 5 different flavors, one for each birthday girl...

The best cakes in town...
New York City "SYDNEY'S SWEETS" CONTACT INFO sydneyssweets@aol.com
PHILADELPHIA "Ms. Selinda's Edibles" CONTACT INFO 215 744 2399

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

Nail Polish Color of the Week...

2009-01-20T22:46:00.001-08:00

Buy me a Cameo by ESSIE is the sister color to Steeling the scene, its soft, its romantic, and its classic... Buy me a Cameo can be found on the official Essie.com site.

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

Keeping The Dream Alive...

2009-01-20T12:22:00.000-08:00

This past weekend has been all about Dreaming...

If you went to see the film Notorious, BIG felt us with one quote that stuck with me... No Dream is too BIG, Sky's the limit...

Monday we came upon Dr. Martin Luther Kings Birthday, only to be proud to see part of his dream being fulfilled...

Today we watched as Barack Obama became the 44th Prseident of the United States of America...

And as for me, Im just a girl chasing my dreams....

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

A Sustainable Style Event...

2009-01-19T10:02:00.000-08:00

My little cousin Ashlee who aspires to be a model invited me to her first modeling gig. The event was titled Got Green?, An evening of shopping, cocktails, and informal ECO-FRIENDLY fashion presentation. The mission was to donate recycled clothing to Dress for Success. Nonetheless I was so impressed with the event, Ashlee looked amazing and the recycled designs were fabulous..

Leah Janell: In My Shoes
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We can't change the world, unless we change ourselves...

2009-01-19T05:23:00.000-08:00

I had pleasure of seeing NOTORIOUS last night and I would first and foremost like to say I LOVED IT... As you all know I love to watch films for more than just seeing a new project but as an actress I get a chance to view other thespians and actually learn some of their techniques. So here's my take on what each actor brought to the screen...

Jamal "Gravy" Woolard who plays Christopher "Biggie" Wallace did an amazing job this rapper turned actor, has truly proven himself ready for the big screen. He allowed us to once again open our hearts, eyes and ears to the Notorious BIG. I think I have a thing for BIG BOYS now : )...

"Derek Luke" who plays Sean Puffy Combs made me eat my words, when I first found out that he was casted for the role I just knew that he wouldn't be able to play Puff. But Derek look mastered this role he is an incredible actor and I respect his work 110% in this project.

Angela Bassett who play Ms. Voletta Wallace continues on her path to success she is phenomenal and what she does and that did not start or end with this project. After seeing the film it makes you realize that there is no pain like a mothers pain.

Anthony Mackie who plays TuPac Shakur Anthony has proven himself to be a great actor but I must admit he has fallen short of what I wanted to see. I wasn't impressed with his performance at all...

As we all know Lil Kim was not an active part of this production and she is also not pleased with the way she was portrayed in this film, for starters I feel Naturi Naughton formerly of 3LW did the best she could do with the role. I do feel where Kim is coming from a true bond between her and BIG was not displayed it was purely sexual. Though I feel this project is about BIG, I understand Kim's position each and everyone who BIG ever loved was an active part of this production. From his son to his mother, from faith to Puff, from Cease to D-Roc why not Just include her.

Overall the project was a success I hope we continue to support it especially within these last few days of its opening week, lets try to put BIG where he belongs in that number 1 spot...

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

Snowy Days...

2009-01-15T06:49:00.000-08:00

Isn't it such a drag when you wake up in the morning look out the window and see snow. Yikes now image if you already laid out your clothes for work and you have to change your entire outfit because of this sudden change in weather. The alarm clock didn't go off so your running late, and all you can do is think about making some pancakes, hot tea and going right back to sleep... My advice to you is to make the best of any snow day... Remember when you were little and you use to make snow angels. I know, I know we are a bit too old for that now, but try writing a cute little message in the snow, then picture texting it to your lover or friends. I am certain it will brighten up their snow day.

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

Event Planning 101

2009-01-14T06:01:00.000-08:00

ALWAYS WOW THE KIDS....

Everyone loves cake and ice cream especially children so recently when I attended a birthday party for my little cousin Laila, I discovered something "cute, different, and tasty" that was a combination of cake and ice cream "CAKE IN A CONE". .

How to make these delicious treats...

* Purchase Assorted colored cones (like the ones you see in the photo's below)

* After you mix your cake batter fill the bottom of the cone with the mix

* Place the cones in the oven to bake under 250 degree oven temperature

* Pay close attention to the cones because they will cook extremely fast, in about 7 to 10 minutes

* After the cake is done remove the cones from the oven and allow them to cool in room temperature

* Place icing on top of each cone and add sprinkles or even a cherry on top to attract the children

As you can see these CAKE'S IN A CONE were a major success, Laila and the rest of her guest enjoyed them...

Leah Janell: In My Shoe's

Ask Leah...

2009-01-12T12:24:00.001-08:00

Hey Lady,
I have this problem that i need your advice on, I met this guy that i thought was great I mean he had so many things going for himself great job, masters degree, no children lol. We became friends and were getting to know each other so one day he asked if i had myspace and I told him yes apparently one of my friends on myspace hit him up and they met up and I'll just say things happened between the two of them. He then tells me about it, but then said to me that he doesn't even like that girl and that he wants to get with me. I'm so confused do I cut him off?
Help

OK I'm not sure who's ass to kick first HIS or HER's. For starters LEAVE HIM ALONE, I say this because he was fully aware that she was an acquaintance of yours before he started dealing with her. Now that goes two ways because I am guessing she knew you and him were on the verge of developing something as well. I am more concerned with your friendship with this young lady than you losing a random dude. See the way I see it is BOYS WILL ALWAYS BE BOYS, but true friends are hard to come by. Cut him loose but keep that wild chica close because like the old saying goes keep ya friends close and your enemies even closer. If dude is genuine he will respect you for walking away and staying away all men like a little bit of a chase and in your case lady your deserve to be chased. Now after 6 to 12 months of fleeing him if he would like to take you on an exclusive dinner then I say go for it but only accept that date if he's taking you somewhere that requires him to wear a blazer and a good shoe. YES MA'AM HE OWES YOU BIG TIME...

Let me know what you think, should she cut him off or give him a second chance...

Send your questions to ELEGANT718@AOL.COM and in the subject write ASK LEAH

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

Ask Leah...

2009-01-12T06:30:00.001-08:00

Last night I received a text message from a young man asking for advice, so I have decided to implement the ASK LEAH column of my blog. I will never reveal who the person is, but I will look to my readers for advice to help this individual especially if you disagree with the advice I have given. So Here we go.

Hey Leah,
Lets start off by saying I have no swag, secondly I need to know what it is that females like. I have never really had a girl to call my own. And I may need help in that category.
Thanks Your Friend

First I would like to thank you for your honesty, let me start off by saying that SWAGGER is something that people "have" not something you can create. Swag in my personal opinion is confidence, its all in the way you walk, and the way you talk. Your swag is not determined by the car you drive, but could easy be observed by the way you drive that car "If you understand what I'm saying". For example, I adore a man with a laid back swag which means when he's driving he doesn't have his windows rolled down for all to hear his music trying attract on lookers. Swag isn't developed by what you wear but how you wear it... As for your second question WHAT DO FEMALES LIKE lol we wish we could tell you, while we are crying about wanting A GOOD MAN, we sometimes always go right back to the one who did us wrong. I can only speak for myself when I say I am attracted to Bad Boys but all girls want respect, honesty, loyalty and to feel loved don't be afraid to pamper your lady but don't be afraid to tell her NO at the same time, we cant always have everything we want.

To hear more about swagger go to www.nopoundsent.com view the program OFF TOPIC Episode 2 is titled SWAG...

Now its your turn feel free to comment with some advice for my friend. And if you have a question email it to me at Elegant718@aol.com and in the subject write ASK LEAH...

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

CONGRATULATIONS

2009-01-11T21:22:00.000-08:00

WELL THE TIME HAS FINALLY ARRIVED SHEENA HAD THE BABY AAKI JR. WAS BORN SUNDAY JAN. 11th 2009 AT 8:15AM HE'S A SMALL BUNDLE OF JOY WEIGHING IN AT 4LBS 11oz... BLESSINGS TO THE PARENTS AND THEIR FIRST BABY...

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

Top 3 ways to keep HIM interested...

2009-01-11T13:20:00.000-08:00

Now that I have learned that I have male readers I think its time for me to get their opinion on things. As I have told y'all before I think that I am honestly ready for a relationship so I am trying to figure out if I am on the right track to snag the dude of my choice

Top 3 ways to keep him interested...

Send cute text messages...
There's a dude that makes me smile he doesn't have to say much just the mere fact that he is what me and my girls consider "A WHOLE MAN" puts a smile on my face. So when I hadn't heard from him in a while I sent him a cute text that said
neglect- [ni-glekt] verb
1. to pay no attention or too little attention to; disregard or slight.
___________ has neglected Leah all week long.

Now he thought it was different and it made him laugh, but am I still on the cute BFF side of things?

Momma knows Best
The way to man's heart is through his stomach, at least that's what my mother has always raised me to believe. Now I must admit I am far from one to say women belong in the kitchen but I do think your man should wake up to the smell of some good Ole Turkey bacon every once in awhile.

So what do y'all think should I find out what his favorite meal is and cook it for him...

Talk Sports
So y'all already know I have this down pack I'm a basketball fan to the heart, and I'm trying to learn all about Football, you can sit me in front of any boxing match and I'm glued to the screen.

So the question is does men adore the prissy type or do they like women who are little boys at heart.

I'm leaning on you all for advice ladies share your secrets and fellas don't be afraid to correct us in the areas we are slipping...

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

Event Planning 101

2009-01-04T23:44:00.000-08:00

The Baby Shower
Those of you who know me know that I am the QUEEN of planning, Road Trips, Vaca's, Romantic Dinners if you are my girl I have aided in planning a significant event in your life. My most recent event to date, was my girlfriend Sheena's Baby Shower. When Sheena called to give me the news that she was expecting, I was all too excited I don't even recall her asking me to plan her shower, I just did. So I am going to use Sheena's Baby Shower as a guide to teach you all how to plan the perfect Baby Shower...

Location, Location, Location
People love to fantasize, pick a location that allows your guest imagination to flow.
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The Cake
When Planning a baby shower the cake is extremely important, the cake is a conversation piece, allow a piece of that conversation to go home with your guest and your shower will be the talk of the town for many months to come.

The Food
Everyone enjoys good food, but most importantly people appreciate the presentation. Tin foil pans and aluminum foil covers are a major NO NO. Also avoid full size plates, and paper goods. Silverware and glass plates are a must.

The Drinks
At a Baby Shower things need to remain classy serve your guest all types of wine NO HARD LIQUOR, have your glasses of wine already served in small glasses to keep spills to a minimum.

Thank Yous
Present your guest with a token of your appreciation in a surprise element, I mean when you got your gift it was wrapped so nicely shouldn't theirs be.

and whats inside should be something to make everyone say AWWWWW... Like these personalized M&Ms

The Guest
Don't be afraid to be selective with whom you invite to your events, select an older mature crowd of adults and predominately females to keep the chatter about last nights game to a minimum.

If you follow these guides lines you are sure to end the night with TWO PROUD SOON TO BE PARENTS... As I did...

Thanks Sheena and Aaki for the opportunity...

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

Nail Polish Color of the Week

2009-01-02T14:05:00.000-08:00

Purple has ironically become the new black, in the midst of us girls trying to take a walk on the dark side we were introduced to "We Still Have Paris" OPI'S new deep plum color. I have yet to experience Paris, but WE STILL HAVE NEW YORK, this Purple tone would be great for a Broadway Play...

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

Happy New Year to ALL...

2009-01-02T10:17:00.000-08:00

and to all a HAPPY NEW YEAR... Welcome to 2009, I am certain I am not the only one to say that 2008 has been one heck of a year. From The Economy to Athlete's in trouble, it seems like every time we turned on the news OUR people were yet again in trouble. Even with all the headaches of 2008 we were happy to hear that Beyonce and Jay-Z tied the knot, but most off all we were able to shed tears of JOY on November 4Th when BARACK OBAMA WAS ELECTED THE 44TH PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA... Because of that very day, "At that very moment" we are all able to walk into 2009 INSPIRED, inspired to achieve, inspired to become, inspired to explore, inspired to learn, inspired to give and inspired to grow... So on the last night of 2008 my family and I went to church, to Thank God for all that 2008 gave us Good and Bad, also to receive his blessings for 2009. After church my sister Shyah (The Publicist) and I went to Columbus 6 a hotel in Manhattan to meet up with my girlfriend Kenya. As we listened to tunes by my 2ND Favorite : ) Roc-a-fella Artist we sipped red wine and reminisced about 2008. We talked about Our Trip to Cleveland which was the best/worse trip we have ever taken. We laughed till our tummy's hurt. This I know 2008 has made me a better person and for that I am truly THANKFUL...
HAPPY NEW YEAR...

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

UNDER THE MISTLE TOE

2008-12-27T09:59:00.000-08:00

Mirrors on Grand has created their own holiday drinks to sell for special holiday prices, each drink has a holiday themed name like the reindeer, or the candy cane. My personal favorite was The Mistle Toe, I was smooth, creamy and chilled. I guess your expecting me to tell you what is used to make The Mistle Toe, uhhhhh nope! Hit up Mirrors on Grand between Lafayette and Clifton and try it for yourself... Hey you never know you might catch me in there sipping on one...

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

Nail Polish Color of the Week...

2008-12-23T17:34:00.000-08:00

Lavender is a soft color that makes a bold statement, especially during the colder seasons. One may say pastels are for Easter but OPI begs to differ, introducing Do You Lilac It. I certainly must admit me LIKIE... You can find Do You Lilac It on OPIs website for 12.99.

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

CADILLAC RECORDS

2008-12-23T17:07:00.000-08:00

Over the weekend Shyah, Jen and I had the pleasure of going to see the newly released film CADILLAC RECORDS. Before seeing the film I had heard so many different reviews about it. People all over were raving about how great Beyonce's acting skills were and how she did an amazing job playing Ms. Etta James.

As an actress its hard for me to appreciate Beyonce as an actress. I love to see new faces getting work, not singers becoming actresses, but after seeing this film I must agree that Beyonce might almost be there. I mean she has not reached Oscar winning status yet but she has truly grown as an actress and her work was greatly appreciated. Besides Beyonce I felt like Columbus Short had his break through performance as well, Columbus did an amazing transition from his debut as DJ in STOMP THE YARD. He was Hilarious, and Passionate Columbus was to Cadillac Records what Eddie Murphy was to Dream Girls, so for that I think he deserves an Oscar Nomination for best Supporting Actor.

The only negative review I have about this film is for the Beyonce fans out there, she is not introduced until late in the film, so late that my sister THANKED HER FOR JOINING US when she made her appearance LOL....

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

APOLOGIES ARE IN ORDER

2008-12-23T17:03:00.000-08:00

I am back and coming at y'all full force for the holidays, sorry about the delay, back to basics... Enjoy

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

Reach for the Stars...

2008-12-16T07:37:00.000-08:00

When my BESTIE Jas (The Teacher) called and asked me to come speak to the girls in her mentoring program I thought "of course", I will bring nail polish and make up and make this a total girls pow wow. I asked Jasmine to send me a briefing of the program and the girls in it. She stated the girls all come from rough neighborhoods like we grew up in. They are within the ages of 12 to 14 and for anyone who knows a young lady in that age bracket you know she has just entered the "I KNOW IT ALL, AND YOU CANT TELL ME NOTHING" phase of her life. Still I figure this would be a breeze, I wanted to approach the girls from another angle, my goal was to motivate them, inspire them and most of all encourage them. I wanted them to see that this Project Princess aspired to be all she can be and their story book ending could be nothing short of a fairy tale... As I drove through Elizabeth New Jersey, it took me back to 2005 when Jasmine first moved into her classroom. I remember us getting lost trying to find the school for the very first time. We feared if we turned the wrong corner, the next time you heard about us it would be in the papers. Each corner reminded me of what Brooklyn use to be or of what Brownsville is today. I made it safely to the school and I was highly anticipating meeting THE GIRLS, but first I had to meet Ms. Lee's first grade class. I got so many compliments from "Ms. Lee she looks beautiful" to "Ummm Lady I like your shiny sweater" lol... As the clock struck 3:30 I was called to the stage. I entered the room and there was a female police officer addressing the girls and even though she was talking all eyes seemed to be on me. Nervous I adjusted my posture, fixed my dress, and raised one eye brow to make sure that my face read "this is not a game". The one thing I was not going to tolerate from this group of girls was disrespect, I came with a Mission and I saw fit to conquer it. As I watched one particular girl gain snickers from her peers, from a joke that was geared towards me I thought "she will be my challenge"... The officer took her last Question and then Ms. Lee introduced me. I started off by telling the girls about "THE FIRST IMPRESSION" and how if it wasn't brought forth right it could certainly be the last impression. I told the girls about how their demeanor showed their level of confidence. I did a quick exercise asking everyone to take a look around the room at there peers, then I asked the girls to sit up straight and cross their legs and then I said now take a look around the room and tell me what you see... Next the girls wanted to know about me I told them about my acting career and about what it was like living in California. In closing I presented the girls with letters from some of the most influential ladies in my life "My Friends" I told the girls that these young ladies would now be their big sisters and that they could contact them for encouragement at any time. Lastly I gave out the gifts Shyah Dickerson P.R. at Phat Fashions (My sister) sent bottle's of Kimora Lee Simmons latest Fragrance for the girls, Taylor Cook of Lafayette 148 (Head Designer of L. Janell The line) provided Note Pads for the girls, Brandi Womack of Score Educational Services (Creator of I'm keeping up) provided glow in the dark balls, rubber pencils and balloons for the girls. Over all the afternoon with the girls was a major success I allowed them inspire me needless to say the girls will be seeing me more often.

Thanks to Ms. Lee and School #1 for the opportunity

Thanks for Shyah Dickerson, Taylor Cook and Brandi Womack for all the gifts

Thanks to all of the Big Sisters
Kenya Agunloye
Ena Brown
Shyah Dickerson
Jennifer Holmes
Shantina Mapp
Samantha Miller
Atalie Short
Brandi Womack
Nakisha Williams

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

Melt...

2008-12-15T17:11:00.000-08:00

So Jen and I have come to the conclusion that we are going to make Melt our annual once a month brunch location, until we have tried everything on the menu. This time around I had the crab cakes and pouched eggs, one word AMAZING... Jen ordered the French Toast and she loved them. I am dying to know who is the head chef at MELT so that I can marry him, I mean the combinations that they have sound odd but are really great they look phenomenal and taste even better... MELT GETS TWO THUMBS UP, AGAIN...

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

Nail Polish Color of the Week...

2008-12-14T14:56:00.000-08:00

From RiRi to TeTe and even Me, we are all falling for the latest craze YELLOW NAIL POLISH, Yellow is the new Black, and you are certainly going to NEED SUNGLASSES... OPI introduces it's latest polish sensation NEED SUNGLASSES, after three coats of this new color, that bright stand out effect that you are going for shall arrive... Need Sunglasses can be found on sale on the OPI website www.opi.com

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

Lets Eat in Dumbo...

2008-12-10T21:57:00.001-08:00

If you all haven't figured it out by now I'm single, I wouldn't say that I am LOOKING for a man to but I would say that I am peaking every time MR. TALL DARK AND HANDSOME comes around the corner... At any rate my doors are open, so I went on a date this week. Yes a date lol who still uses that term... The gentlemen was a college friend and seeing as how college was just a few months ago lol wink wink, I was certainly comfortable. He asked where I wanted to go on this Monday night so I called Sam and asked for a restaurant that was close to home, inexpensive, and served good Food. She encouraged me to go to the DUMBO section of Brooklyn (Down Under the Manhattan Bridge Overpass) to a cool spot called Five Front. As my date and I pulled up in Dumbo we noticed that Five Front was not open. Slightly annoyed I chose to go next store to No. 1 Front Street a Restaurant named TORO.

The restaurant was pretty empty the atmosphere was nice and cozy we sat down to order... I was so excited to be reunited with my famous Drango roll that I have only ate while living in LA, for my entree I order the Chilean Seabass...

The Dragon Roll

Positives For TORO

Dragon Roll was amazing

Chilean Seabass was great

Negatives for Toro

The Liquor storage room was closed so alcohol was limited

Im not sure how I felt about the imitation version of the "TAO" Buddah

TORO TAO

Needless to say, I'm still peaking every time MR. TALL DARK AND HANDSOME comes around the corner...

Leah Janell: In My Shoes

Kenya Tells Us More about Essence...

2008-12-10T21:24:00.000-08:00

Kenya is back with more info from the Essence Conference...

Real Life 101: Lessons Learned Outside of the Classroom

Moderator: Rhonda McLean

Speakers: Shante Bacon, Capricorn Clark, Amy Dubois Barnett, and Cori Murray

So this workshop was kind of like a "tell all, each panelist informed us conference goers of trials and tribulations, risks, successes, haters, fears, highs and lows, etc. that they experienced while climbing their different ladders of success. The panel was a group of women from all walks of life, different professions, images, perspectives; but it was crazy how the chemistry and vibe was on point. If I could have shouted AMEN, I would have been shouting for days. Time Inc's Rhonda McLean was the moderator; she was awesome! I remember her saying We're kicking our shoes off and what's said in this room stays in this room." As an aspiring attorney, she inspired me the most; I hung on to every word that came out of her mouth, "GO... SEE and DO"; referring to how we should approach seeking success, "value yourself, "continue to take risks" "Never stop learning" all things we need to hear. It's so easy for people to become complacent, we get comfortable in our position at work, we're content with our salaries and we are no longer driven hungry. Well that's rubbish! We should never get too comfortable, continue to challenge yourself, enroll in school again, get that Master's or PH. D, ask for a raise, or you know what, QUIT! Capricorn shared her story of how she left Bad Boy as Diddy's assistant, she says that everyone thought she was crazy, that she had the perfect life working for a man of such power and success, traveling, attending the hottest events; but at the end of the day, she wasn't happy. Forget taking your work home with you, this chick neglected her personal life, her family, and friends etc., to cater to her boss. After years of being Diddy's right hand woman, it was time for her to go. And off she went, taking a job where she was paid less and had to start from the bottom. But guess what? That's not it for Ms. Capricorn; she took a risk and has followed her dream to do what she loves. So today I'm Challenging you to challenge yourself, get yourself together women!!! I remember an episode from The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air when Will was dating Jasmine Guy (Kayla... I think), aunt Viv was tight because Will was distracting her from her studies, she told him that Kayla needed to focus because she was in school on a scholarship and couldn't afford to slip up. She basically told Will that "Kayla's education could be the difference between the Kayla who runs the hospital and the Kayla who cleans it" Which one will you be? After this workshop we were fueled up and pretty much ready to call it a day. We were filled with inspiration and we were ready to take on the world. The fact that we had a long night the night before, were starved, my feet were killed me may have influenced our decision. We took the escalator down and while we riding down Chantel (cousin) reminded me that we paid $35 for this conference and we ought not leave cause we may miss some valuable information. Well boy was right! Thank God for that good ol' Howard Education LOL.

Leah Janell: that was the most powerful one yet I have always been one to say don't stick with one thing reach for the stars chase your dreams and hearing this has motivated me to continue living by that motto... Thanks Kenya

Good Girls Gone Bad Tattoo Event

2008-12-04T21:11:00.000-08:00

Just in case you were not in attendance this footage should make you realize why you can not miss the next one...
Dec. 20th 2008 Good Girls Gone Bad Part II

Leah Janell: In My Shoes